your incall game matters

bammer1515's Avatar
Hey there all, Ladies, I wanted to share an experience I had yesterday and let you know that we are looking for a little better than this. not saying everyone is like this but I have had several encounters where the incall location just isn't it.
I met a lady yesterday, not here locally, that put me off immediately and ruined the experience.
I came to her residence, when she said she was ready. I knock on the door and after about 3 minutes of standing there, she lets me in. I come in to a house full of cats and fish tanks, the house smelling of food. she went into the kitchen and continued doing dishes, cleaning and putting away food, etc... for no less than 15 minutes. during which time the cats are all over the place, coming up to me rubbing my legs etc... also, and the largest no no, after a couple minutes she hollers at her grown son to leave! apparently he was in his bedroom and had not left before I showed up. so I had to go outside and move my car, all the while there is a barbecue going on next door, I'm sure they knew exactly what was was going on.
anyway, why I didn't bale at that moment I don't know, but anyway, head back into the house, and its another 15 minutes of her in the bathroom getting ready for the date.
all of this is a major turn off.
speaking for myself only, a little more effort from the ladies to make us feel more welcome, and appreciated would go a Long way towards better tips and more repeats.
I have been really struggling to find consistent ladies in my area or ones that I want to repeat with due to the setting and their ability to respond, and be professional and welcoming.
Just my rant for the day after an awful experience.
CatMan4u's Avatar
Yes your right Bammer i know that provider and my experience was just a little better but not much i didn't bother with a review and never will go back
But ladies you want use to show up on time . clean and treat you respectfully plus a few other things. Us guys want the same treatment most of us do and will repeat and tip some i have one NWA area lady that i drive a hour completely in the opposite direction of the rest of my day to see and have seen multiple times and have treated her well but back on subject if you ladies want good clients and for us to repeat just treat us decent
BabyDallass's Avatar
Hey there all, Ladies, I wanted to share an experience I had yesterday and let you know that we are looking for a little better than this. not saying everyone is like this but I have had several encounters where the incall location just isn't it.
I met a lady yesterday, not here locally, that put me off immediately and ruined the experience.
I came to her residence, when she said she was ready. I knock on the door and after about 3 minutes of standing there, she lets me in. I come in to a house full of cats and fish tanks, the house smelling of food. she went into the kitchen and continued doing dishes, cleaning and putting away food, etc... for no less than 15 minutes. during which time the cats are all over the place, coming up to me rubbing my legs etc... also, and the largest no no, after a couple minutes she hollers at her grown son to leave! apparently he was in his bedroom and had not left before I showed up. so I had to go outside and move my car, all the while there is a barbecue going on next door, I'm sure they knew exactly what was was going on.
anyway, why I didn't bale at that moment I don't know, but anyway, head back into the house, and its another 15 minutes of her in the bathroom getting ready for the date.
all of this is a major turn off.
speaking for myself only, a little more effort from the ladies to make us feel more welcome, and appreciated would go a Long way towards better tips and more repeats.
I have been really struggling to find consistent ladies in my area or ones that I want to repeat with due to the setting and their ability to respond, and be professional and welcoming.
Just my rant for the day after an awful experience. Originally Posted by bammer1515


That’s doesn’t sound sexy at all or relaxing

Question what does this provider charge per hour?

Wait..I had to go back and re read it all, & after that you went and move your car and still went in? I guess so. I would’ve been worried of the son walking in or who knows.
BabyDallass's Avatar
Yes your right Bammer i know that provider and my experience was just a little better but not much i didn't bother with a review and never will go back
But ladies you want use to show up on time . clean and treat you respectfully plus a few other things. Us guys want the same treatment most of us do and will repeat and tip some i have one NWA area lady that i drive a hour completely in the opposite direction of the rest of my day to see and have seen multiple times and have treated her well but back on subject if you ladies want good clients and for us to repeat just treat us decent Originally Posted by CatMan4u
I agree! I will always have a clean upscale Incall with a light candle burning, never smelling like food or something foul, I’m weird about smells.

Sexy lighting, no animals…I love them but not for my sexy time.

Peppermints, mouthwash, wine, waters, extra wash cloths, men’s soap and hand soap with a pump. lol (I don’t like a bar soap for my hands)

Just a few of the extra things I always provide. & that’s the basics.
But was she good looking? haha.
I'm going to NWA at the end of May but I'm not sure if I will be seeing any one now.
CatMan4u's Avatar
I agree! I will always have a clean upscale Incall with a light candle burning, never smelling like food or something foul, I’m weird about smells.

Sexy lighting, no animals…I love them but not for my sexy time.

Peppermints, mouthwash, wine, waters, extra wash cloths, men’s soap and hand soap with a pump. lol (I don’t like a bar soap for my hands)

Just a few of the extra things I always provide. & that’s the basics. Originally Posted by BabyDallass
BabyD that's what a great. provider does that also means that she wantgreat clients and is worth more$ Some of us just don't know who does those wonderful things. I ll remember that avout you
I am very sorry that you have experienced something like this, not all providers are dirty, in my case I have a dog, he’s super lovely btw and I always make sure to clean and always leave my house smelling fresh and fabulous before and after receiving a client because the impression counts! a pretty, clean and organized woman in her house is everything in my opinion
MJewel's Avatar
So sorry this happened to you.. I operate out of my commercial upscale massage studio.
Candles, private bathroom. Hot towels, soft music and water. Definitely No pets to distract… Could this situation be due to a lower donation?
Cherokeechief's Avatar
So sorry this happened to you.. I operate out of my commercial upscale massage studio.
Candles, private bathroom. Hot towels, soft music and water. Definitely No pets to distract… Could this situation be due to a lower donation? Originally Posted by MJewel
The lower donation in some cases could be partly responsible, but I think it may have more to do with self image.

I've seen ladies with a lower donation and they had a spotless incall.

By the way MJ I'm sad I missed you in Jacksonville when you were here in Florida. OMG You're gorgeous.
MJewel's Avatar
The lower donation in some cases could be partly responsible, but I think it may have more to do with self image.

I've seen ladies with a lower donation and they had a spotless incall.

By the way MJ I'm sad I missed you in Jacksonville when you were here in Florida. OMG You're gorgeous. Originally Posted by Cherokeechief
I gotta come back then, maybe mid summer.
MJewel's Avatar
And Thank you !!!
Donation rate and quality of incall game has little to do with each other. Trash is trash.
tuckahoe's Avatar
You had to wait at least half an hour for her, time you can't get back. Their time is always super valuable, but our time is worthless.
BabyDallass's Avatar
What I’ve learned that Eccie is now, it’s a site for more of the cheaper providers and lots of nasty requests come through guys on Eccie asking for services I would never ever do. It’s truly disgusting and really a worry that girls are doing those services for guys to ask.

I popped back on to see if Eccie has changed from years ago only to see it got worse. That’s why all the higher quality providers I know of they wouldn’t dare post on Eccie. It’s turned into skipthegames2. Just low quality all around the board…it’s just entertainment at this point..