I understand your question exactly OP.
There are some girls who dont really care, they think that the guy should be lucky to be seeing them and they may let him feel her up and give him a bj, but her attitude is still cold and surreal.
I believe that I have a very genuine appeal for this field. I come from civie work in the hospitality field and i find extreme gratitude in making someones day. I care about making you feel warm and welcomed and totally satisfied. This itself is also in the hospitality field. I'm not a paranoid nut-case and I am pretty low volume, so i dont mind opening up if you open up to me