Verifying

Okay everyone this is my policy from here on out for verifying.
Gentlemen you need to call me or text and let me know who is going to be calling to verify you. Unless it is a well known lady.
Reason being- Getting a lot of unknowns asking and they just send a text with your name and number, they do not provide their name or anything else. How am I suppose know if your wife found your phone and is getting info, or other people that you would not want to know you have seen me.
I am always more then happy to help anyway I can, if I can.
Hugs and kisses
Y

Sounds like a smart policy that will help keep everyone's safety in check!!

You're the best Y. Smart as a whip and sexy.

Thanks for looking out for us.

I really get annoyed when local men use traveling girls as references thinking to not “spread their business” because i tend to prioritize with local references- always before the foreign references. Us local ladies communicate frequently enough to be familiar with one another and it makes screening way less complicated.
Thanks Lady Y, for starting this thread because lately gentlemen are making screening way too complicated.

Just curious how the lovely local ladies (like the linguistic liberal use of alliteration?) that are on p411 use that site and the okays? I have local and out of town, as well as some travelers with OKs. Is that sufficient to give you contacts for references or do you want names from us as well? I know some travelers have said kind things about some local girls they have contacted for references as well like Dallas Rain when she comes to visit.

PS... Hi O and Y :-)

If I know you are on p411 then you do not need to give me their names I can look them up. If you are on eccie I can look up your reviews. All the ladies verify differently. Seems a lot of guys lately have been calling BP girls that are popping up and I don't know them from a hole in the wall. If you want me to give you a okay for a unknown you will have to call me first.

If I know you are on p411 then you do not need to give me their names I can look them up. If you are on eccie I can look up your reviews. All the ladies verify differently. Seems a lot of guys lately have been calling BP girls that are popping up and I don't know them from a hole in the wall. If you want me to give you a okay for a unknown you will have to call me first. Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y

***ahem***

While this has generally been a good idea in the past, there have been more and more cases of P411 gentlemen's accounts being hacked or used by LE. It is very important to call and speak to one or more of the gentlemen's previous "conquests."

Ms Y.....private communication headed your way.

I always contact the last 3 ladies they have seen on p411

This recent myriad of backpage references is completely uncool. I won't see anyone who tries this. Nope nope nope. And nope again.

This recent myriad of backpage references is completely uncool. I won't see anyone who tries this. Nope nope nope. And nope again. Originally Posted by LayneLaughlin

I love you. Muah

The easier the screening process and the more info you provide for the lady the better the relationship will start off and the smoother everything will run imo ... definitely need to provide everything i can to ease the screening process

I like to look at the pictures on BP, but I've seen more potential trouble there than is worth it. There are a lot of providers in Omaha on 411 and quite a few that visit that use that service as well. Plus the lovely ladies here.

We all started somewhere. I started on BP and still advertise on there. Bp lets people know when I am available and where I am. Problem with all the new girls is they don't call or give their name or anything and usually just text your number. I can't tell whether they are Leo or your wife. For safety of all of us, its just best if you contact me first. I am more than happy to help the new girls out, I just want to be sure they are safe for us all before I go giving out info.

I saw an add on bp a few weeks ago that i liked so i googled the # and saw reviews on another sight so i contacted her and agreed to meet but ended up getting a flat tire on my way and did not work out. Yesterday i saw the same add on bp and was looking around other areas that were not even close to here and saw the same add and phone #, so be carefull. Just to be clear i saw the same add posted in multiple areas at the same time.

Okay everyone this is my policy from here on out for verifying.
Gentlemen you need to call me or text and let me know who is going to be calling to verify you. Unless it is a well known lady.
Reason being- Getting a lot of unknowns asking and they just send a text with your name and number, they do not provide their name or anything else. How am I suppose know if your wife found your phone and is getting info, or other people that you would not want to know you have seen me.
I am always more then happy to help anyway I can, if I can.
Hugs and kisses
Y Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y

It only makes sense to be as thorough as possible when giving or providing references but *sighs* I think some get way too excited and forget protocol and well....common sense lol.