sorry you had to witness this ashwednesday666, some dawgs will never learn. don't start no shit, won't be no shit...
Originally Posted by LAVixian
No offense Julie, but I don't think he was trying to start shit and I think you jumped the gun on this one. He asked a simple question and even enquired about your well being. It's not uncommon for us to ask "what's up" when a provider is either a NCNS or doesn't answer her phone at the scheduled appointment time.
Regardless, it seems BOTH of you need to work on communication skills. I always ask a provider when I should call to confirm, that way we both know that we should be talking at a certain time. Many guys use a "hobby phone" which is not left on all day so a "not in service" message or voice mail pickup is common. He doesn't mention whether or not he tried to reach you, which he should have done to confirm either the day before or that day. Once you've confirmed, whether a day before or an hour before SHOW UP!!!! If, for some unforeseen reason you can't make it at the last minute, call, text and email as soon as possible to notify that person immediately or as soon as possible. Pretty simple stuff here, folks.
My main point is BE AVAILABLE BY PHONE if you have an appointment. Both parties should have phones on (ladies, you can silence your phone and stash it away during appointments so you can at least see your missed calls after your session) and voice mail boxes should not be full - clear that shit out!!!!