is it wrong to be quiet during oral?

sroach23's Avatar
my ideal session with a provider is the bbbjcimx2 and i love this. most of the time i just sit back, grab a titty or two, and relax. damn near all the providers i have seen say "you are so quiet". do guys normally moan, dirty talk, or just start "yes, yes, ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yyyeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh"?
is it wrong to just sit back and enjoy the show without saying anything?
I have a hard time cumming during oral. When it does happen it is so intense for me I have to put a pillow over my face because I scream at the top of my lungs. It's kinda like in the movie Porkys when Kim Catrell plays the gym teacher who screams in the locker room.
I warn the girl when I see her for BnG which is my fav and tell her "I am a screamer if and if you can make me cum orally I need a pillow." (You girls know who you are who have experienced it).So far, they think it's the coolest thing. Makes them feel good to make a guy scream ina good way.

So let out your sounds/wails/screams/oh yeahs, or even belch the alphabet and make a joyful noise unto the world.
~Ze~'s Avatar
  • ~Ze~
  • 06-04-2012, 06:11 PM
If you are too quiet.. it becomes awkward for us. Your vocals are a point of feedback. We judge our strokes and moans to your input, at least I do.. so please... let it out. Doesn't have to be all porn star.. heavy breathing, a deep "ahhhh".. just something to let me know I am on the right track.

You know your member way better than I ever could.. at least on the first meeting.. so help a gal out a little.
I love a screamer...but undestand some guys need to have total quiet so they can concentrate....MY fave is also BBBJCIMNQNS X 2.....so whatever gets you there works for me.
It doesn't matter to me either way. If you've got a handful of my hair in your hand and are bobbing my head up and down on him while Im performing one of my favorite hobbies, so be it! If you wanna get rowdy and loud, call me a dirty slut - bring it baby! Or if you prefer to stay quiet, still and not move a muscle - it's YOUR fantasy.
I am just here to fulfill it for you.
Lunytunz's Avatar
Great topic! I happen to enjoy oral so much, I too tend to drift off in the ecstacy and remain quiet. However, those are good points the ladies bring up. I'm sure a little feedback might be reassuring and a little direction, either verbal or nonverbal would provide a better experience for both. Thanks for the feedback ladies, really helpful! I guess I have to be a little more vocal! I can't wait for my next session to try it out!
sroach23's Avatar
It doesn't matter to me either way. If you've got a handful of my hair in your hand and are bobbing my head up and down on him while Im performing one of my favorite hobbies, so be it! If you wanna get rowdy and loud, call me a dirty slut - bring it baby! Or if you prefer to stay quiet, still and not move a muscle - it's YOUR fantasy.
I am just here to fulfill it for you. Originally Posted by KennedyLayneDFW
its not nice to go into someones thread and try to make them get a raging hard on, especially when they have to study.
S-Man's Avatar
  • S-Man
  • 06-04-2012, 07:09 PM
If you're extremely quiet, you may want to make some movement so they don't think you fell asleep.
sroach23's Avatar
If you're extremely quiet, you may want to make some movement so they don't think you fell asleep. Originally Posted by S-Man
the hand full of titty should be a sign that they have my attention.
Lunytunz's Avatar
Or died! Ladies, try to explain that one?
berkleigh's Avatar
It bothers me...
I like moaners

The louder the better please
It doesn't matter to me either way. If you've got a handful of my hair in your hand and are bobbing my head up and down on him while Im performing one of my favorite hobbies, so be it! If you wanna get rowdy and loud, call me a dirty slut - bring it baby! Or if you prefer to stay quiet, still and not move a muscle - it's YOUR fantasy.
I am just here to fulfill it for you. Originally Posted by KennedyLayneDFW
PERFECTLY said.....im with Kennedy on this one!
Lunytunz's Avatar
I guess I'll be more vocal next time, Gemma. Can you help me with that?
berkleigh's Avatar
Is that Gemma in her avatar pic?

Damnit she is sexy!!!

*Raaaaaaaaaawwwwrrrr*
Lunytunz's Avatar
Yes it is Berk...she's all that, and a bag of chips!