Lights On DATY

Bobster36's Avatar
I've met a few ladies with absolutely beautiful beavers. I'd really like to DATY w/the lights on.

Is that too weird to request?

(To the ladies I've seen, you know who you are!)
NearHauteRed's Avatar
The ones that want all the lights off more than likely, have something to hide, be it they do not want you to see the birthmarks in their mid section or that they are not "into the session" and they do not want you to see that in their stoic facial expressions.
MUFF!!! Wanna see the MUFF!!! Tired of 80's porn, wanna see the MUFF!!!
dallasfan's Avatar
Or they don't want to see the clients.

I don't remember the last session in the dark unless it was a massage.

The ones that want all the lights off more than likely, have something to hide, be it they do not want you to see the birthmarks in their mid section or that they are not "into the session" and they do not want you to see that in their stoic facial expressions. Originally Posted by NearHauteRed
threepeckeredbillygoat's Avatar
Men are visually stimulated creatures. I wanna see the tits and the ass and cooter.
NearHauteRed's Avatar
Or they don't want to see the clients.

I don't remember the last session in the dark unless it was a massage. Originally Posted by dallasfan
Yes, then there is that as well. If a provider HAS to have no lights on to do a session, she might want to consider doing something else as there is no good reason, other than saving a few cents on electricity, to be in total darkness to do a session. As far as massage in the dark goes, if her massage is good, my eyes are closed and I do not care about the lighting.
BLM69's Avatar
  • BLM69
  • 10-21-2013, 02:21 PM
I always leave the lights on since I hobby in the day time 95% of the time.
Me too...most of my clients visit during the business day...so it's always light.

But, just thinking...it might be HOT fun to be in the dark with a total stranger. I suppose the same thing could be achieved with using blind folds.
What ??? Ive never done it w the lights OFF...
pyramider's Avatar
Lights on allows more admiration of the lady's taint.
Take her to motel 6... they always leave the lights on lol... sorry couldn't resist
What ??? Ive never done it w the lights OFF... Originally Posted by Eva Damita
Me either. Most of the time my visits are during the day but even for the nighttime ones, there's always been some sort of light on.

I could see it if it was someone I'd seen multiple times for some added eroticism due to the darkness but for most visits........well, that just seems weird.
IMAPACKIN's Avatar
Lights on, at least on low. I like to watch what I eat.
I'm okay with them on, off or just low lighting (for the mood). I enjoy DATY (gals I've seen know that) and of course, I love the rest of the fun too!
If a provider has an issue, even with low lighting, she might have something to hide (i.e. signs of disease, mommy marks she doesn't like, some personal dislike, whatever), or perhaps she has a SO and would rather imagine him/her than see you.

Personally, I think having a low light should be a requirement. Eye-contact is hot. You might like seeing what you're eating, and I think it's best for security reasons, for both parties.

Hey OP, you've been around a long time. What specifically happened to bring this up. Gotta story to tell? (Leaving out names, of course)

Thx,
LnH