Time frame for visits

Aight first let me say a couple of things. First I'm a little tipsy with crown black and dr. Pepper(excellent if you have not tried it). Second I would be considered a newbie. I believe in learning from those who have gone before me. Here is the question, what is your time frame for seeing a date? What do you base it on? Is it strictly money or do you physically need time to recuperate? I am a middle age guy of moderate income and I am trying to figure a good schedule. Looking for some advice. Thanks in advance!

Unless you have unlimited funds money is always a factor. I try to set aside some cash funds on a regular basis from cash back at different places until I have enough for at least 2 play times, your choice of 1hr, 90min, or 2hr. That way if a last minute opportunity presents herself I am financially ready. I used to have more opportunity when I traveled for work but now that I have retired to small town miss, not so much. Now I have select days and times that I can be away without being missed. That and getting someone to travel to my local on my schedule is my biggest impediment. Happy trails to you.

A good and fair question to be sure. I suspect many of the hobby veterans around here might agree with me that money was far more the limiting factor when we began in our younger days. Then, we would bang anything with breasts, twice or three times in an hour, and somehow fit it into our budget.

Now, unfortunately, when money is less of an issue for us, we book two hour appointments more regularly because it takes us that long to warm up, rev up, put out and rest up. I can still do MSOG but it takes the right lady and a minimum two hour block.

Good post.

I'm with Contralto on this one. I need multiple hours for recupperation time for the second round. Additionally, it is very nice to be relaxed and take our time together and not feel rushed.. Fortunately, finances have become less of an issue as I have gotten older and enjoy more time.

But, there is another reason, although it is less of an issue in this in this market. I have been stood up when a lady got a better offer after we were scheduled for a single hour. Happened more than once. Booking 2 or more hours for each appointment has eliminated that problem. That, and focusing on low volume providers helps. Even with traveling ladies, you are more likely to get your desired time if you are a multi hour regular.

... Even with traveling ladies, you are more likely to get your desired time if you are a multi hour regular. Originally Posted by Woodford

Or even just a regular for that matter. I think in the hobby perhaps more than most 'industries' being a regular creates exponentially greater benefits.

So here's my two cents... if it is a first time date I wouldn't book more than two hours. Here's my reason why, what if you don't click, what if she doesn't provide you with exactly what you're looking for, you end up not being interested. I only say this out of respect for the gentlemen. My donation is required up front, certainly if you are not msog, or you just decide it isn't working a lady wouldn't exactly 'refund' you. I respect the gentlemen I see as I want them to respect me. I'd never want to 'rip someone off'.
Now after that first initial date, when you are excited and happy and know she turns you on and pushes all the right buttons.... 2H are normally a minimal to have tons of fun. Conversation, a little wine, fun, more convo, massage, etc. Like an ACTUAL date. I honestly take pride in doing that. I also like to get to know someone.
Then.... that next time.... you may just be ravaged at the door!!

On many occasions, I've had wonderful first dates that were a few hours or even several hours long. Once things are at a point where an encounter is being arranged and confirmed by both parties, I would hope that my date is as enthusiastic as I am for our time together. Personally, a high level of compatibility is really important to me. And I've found that mutually researching one another thoroughly helps ensure that my companion and I would be able to sustain the passion between us, whether it's for an hour, or two, or more.

I can see the pros and cons to more frequent, shorter sessions as well as fewer, longer encounters. I guess it's a matter of priorities and what type of experiences a gent is looking for.

Perfect response .

So here's my two cents... if it is a first time date I wouldn't book more than two hours. Here's my reason why, what if you don't click, what if she doesn't provide you with exactly what you're looking for, you end up not being interested. I only say this out of respect for the gentlemen. My donation is required up front, certainly if you are not msog, or you just decide it isn't working a lady wouldn't exactly 'refund' you. I respect the gentlemen I see as I want them to respect me. I'd never want to 'rip someone off'.
Now after that first initial date, when you are excited and happy and know she turns you on and pushes all the right buttons.... 2H are normally a minimal to have tons of fun. Conversation, a little wine, fun, more convo, massage, etc. Like an ACTUAL date. I honestly take pride in doing that. I also like to get to know someone.
Then.... that next time.... you may just be ravaged at the door!! Originally Posted by addison_scott

Now I have select days and times that I can be away without being missed. That and getting someone to travel to my local on my schedule is my biggest impediment. Happy trails to you. Originally Posted by greyghost48

This is my issue as well. Normally I end up traveling to see providers. I get more bang from my drive with multi-hour appointments. Like the others said though, only after the first date and with someone I have clicked with. I would start small and work your up until you find what time frame works for you.