//Short version notated by an asterisk(*)
A lot of ads and reviews say something to the extent of "soft", "warm", "deep", or "relaxing" music in their description of the incall (more often than not, though sometimes this is true for an outcall).
What does that really mean to you? Give examples! If you can't give examples, then list a genre at least.
See, in my mind, the outset of a date isn't necessarily dictated by the music offered, or even settled on, but the effort to find the music best fitting the situation or the taste of the consumer (an oddly delicious word in this context), is a tremendous bonus to any encounter (civilian and provider alike).
I understand that this a subject that, as a guess, the majority of people don't give 2 cents about, but as a man who has a genuine passion and intrigue for music, it makes all the difference! I feel it comes back to the idea (if not fact) that, even at its most base level, sex is an emotional experience and therefore only enhanced by other emotional triggers, events, or stimuli in whatever form we most connect with; be it the emotional embrace of another body, the positive reinforcement of a whisper about our sexual prowess, or simply the satisfaction of a carnal desire we best not deny. As it stands, for me, music serves not as a background noise to displace the anxiety or awkwardness of an encounter but to enhance it and reach the highest form of fulfillment that I can between myself and the provider I've deemed worthy of my affection.
*TL;DR (Too Long Didn't Read) (neanderthal version) ...What music do you listen to while banging, bitches?
For the sake of example I will lead with a few albums I find to be brilliant of their own accord, but delightfully enhanced when shared with another...enthusiastic partner, (Sadly, this has to be explained: the following albums are of a...newer variety...to that of which most members wouldn't fancy (not to be presumptuous, but more in recognition of my audience). I acknowledge that The Doors debut album, Steve Millers greatest hits, the Eagles greatest hits, or what have you, can certainly enhance a situation (a fact that I prove almost daily with my obsession of The Doors early work) however, these are albums I grew to adore, (if for no other reason that I was only born in the late 80's); and this only exemplifies my point of the consumer having the possibility of a wide musical taste, and the sweet ironic availability for us to play whatever we want without fear because.....lets face it, the background noise is the least of out concerns.
Forgive the rambling, here's your new-wave examples (that doesn't mean French, by the way, for the more...worldly of readers, haha):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uN9tulBHr8Y (Thievery Corporation)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCwfUX58IZw (Massive Attack)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=422V...2mv77N4FlwStP5 (playlist of Hybrid's "I Choose Noise" album)
Hell, even the more intense work of Nero and their Welcome Reality album: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuR1rVVf358 (Yeah, ok, this is certainly more of a sport-fucking backdrop, but damn combining an awe-inspiring woman with a favorite group/artist; there's just not much more the world has to offer, frankly.
End note: I suspect that MOST will disagree with the examples provided, but that should only inspire you to provide (heh) your own examples! Remember we're dealing with a completely subjective matter here; that doesn't mean we can't learn a bit from one another.
Oh, and you're welcome to those who use the music I provided in the future!
-G