References

I've had a few people contact me about setting up appointments but as soon as I ask for refrences they either end the conversation or give me references to girls who never reply. I'm also listed on p411 and the same thing I just get "I have 20 Okays you can't see me? Im literally posted everywhere but I started on bp I'm slowly trying to make the transition and not post bp all together. HELP lol

Just move on hun.
If they can't give you the screening info then it's not worth the stress.

Good luck hun and play safe!

Well on here if they don't give references, it's probably for a reason. No loss, better off not seeing them.
On p411 the whole point of having Okays is so you can see they have already been approved. If you want to contact girls that's your prerogative. But he shouldn't have to do anything other than send you a appointment request. If he won't send the appointment request, again better off no seeing him.

For the newbie gents who are reading this: if your plan is to get established as someone with a reference or two, MAKE SURE that the lady you will initially see (the newbie-friendly provider who you see first to establish that history) WILL ACT AS A REFERENCE FOR YOU.

I cannot count how many times I've seen gents who decided to see a provider who would not reply to reference checks. There are way too many good newbie friendly providers who will provide references for you to waste your money on someone with poor TCB (especially if one of your intentions is to get established).


Kindly,


Camille

Well on here if they don't give references, it's probably for a reason. No loss, better off not seeing them.
On p411 the whole point of having Okays is so you can see they have already been approved. If you want to contact girls that's your prerogative. But he shouldn't have to do anything other than send you a appointment request. If he won't send the appointment request, again better off no seeing him. Originally Posted by rockerrick

^ this

I'd never begrudge a lady for wanting to screen no matter how many okays or reviews I have, but I did have a girl get mad at me awhile back for not providing specific references.

I've never understood why some ladies feel like it becomes the guy's responsibility to give the contact information for the girls he's using as references. Especially on p411 but even here. You can see who has given a guy okays can you not? Why not take it upon yourself to reach out to them if you wish? Same goes for here, if a guy has a bunch of reviews just feel free to reach out to any of them.

On BP or somewhere without a record of who has seen whom yeah of course, and if a guy doesn't want to give references I can see that being a huge red flag. Any guy who doesn't get that is just too used to the BP scene where many girls do no form of screening whatsoever.

Also, I agree regarding newbies Camille, it does no good to have seen a newbie friendly provider to establish yourself if you chose one who isn't good about giving references.

Yeah I would think randomly picking reviews would be better than me giving you ringers of my choosing.
Perhaps Leilani does not know that if you receive a pm from a guy, to the left where I'd says reviews is a little blue number, click on it and the reviews appear. They have contact info, email, provider php link, or phone number if the lady is ok with that.

I just got got the hang of p411 honestly but the Okays make sense lol.... Thank you for the advice ladies

I have 20+ okays.....if i give you my number and you skim down the list and match the girls up here with likely a matching review.....and need more?...i don't think you'll find it.

If you start pinging ladies, more than likely you'll get simple shit like "he's GTG" "nice guy" "he's okay hon" and other non-value adding info.

I've had a few people contact me about setting up appointments but as soon as I ask for refrences they either end the conversation or give me references to girls who never reply. I'm also listed on p411 and the same thing I just get "I have 20 Okays you can't see me? Im literally posted everywhere but I started on bp I'm slowly trying to make the transition and not post bp all together. HELP lol Originally Posted by Leilani The Hottie

Welcome to ECCIE! You don't even want to see the ones on here that won't give you references so that is just as well. Since you are brand new to the site all of the scammers that target the new ladies will be targeting you so be very careful. Be sure to screen and check the ladies' infoshare forum here for alerts that are posted on the bad guys. You should also join Verifyhim to help you screen out rip-offs and dangerous clients. Trust me, it is worth every penny of the subscription price.

Some ladies are very good with giving references and sadly some are not. That is why it is good to ask for 2-3 references. Hopefully at least 1 of them will respond.

The main reason clients join and pay for P411 is so they don't have to give out screening information to every provider they wish to see. Their 'okays' are their references. You can contact their okays if you feel you need to but shouldn't ask the clients there for references. If a client has several okays that is good enough for me and I don't feel the need to contact the ladies he has seen. Some ladies do any way. Just do whatever makes you feel safe.

I do what you ask if I want to see you. If you turn me down or don't respond I move on. I long ago stopped trying to make sense of each individual ladies' routine. I have yet to hear a story where the dude talked the girl into changing her screening methods and it all ended well.

You can see who has given a guy okays can you not? Why not take it upon yourself to reach out to them if you wish? Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

Where do they see who has given okays to a guy or not? Do you mean check the reviews done by the guy? Or do ladies have their own list where every encounter is recorded?

Welcome to ECCIE! You don't even want to see the ones on here that won't give you references so that is just as well. Since you are brand new to the site all of the scammers that target the new ladies will be targeting you so be very careful. Be sure to screen and check the ladies' infoshare forum here for alerts that are posted on the bad guys. You should also join Verifyhim to help you screen out rip-offs and dangerous clients. Trust me, it is worth every penny of the subscription price.

Some ladies are very good with giving references and sadly some are not. That is why it is good to ask for 2-3 references. Hopefully at least 1 of them will respond.

The main reason clients join and pay for P411 is so they don't have to give out screening information to every provider they wish to see. Their 'okays' are their references. You can contact their okays if you feel you need to but shouldn't ask the clients there for references. If a client has several okays that is good enough for me and I don't feel the need to contact the ladies he has seen. Some ladies do any way. Just do whatever makes you feel safe. Originally Posted by 1ThickBlond

I'm definitely going to check out the site im sure not every hobbiest is on there but it's just 1 more precaution thanks babe

Where do they see who has given okays to a guy or not? Do you mean check the reviews done by the guy? Or do ladies have their own list where every encounter is recorded? Originally Posted by futile

I was referring to p411, if they view your profile they can see who has given you okays and when it was given. It even has a link they can click to pull up that girl's profile. If you look at your own profile options there's a "provider view" that shows you what girls can see when they view your profile.

Yeah and in the case of Eccie they can check review history and contact girls he's written reviews on if they wish.

I screen everybody. Yes even guys with a million okays. Because its MY SAFETY on the line. There are plenty of clients ive seen who are cooperative and provide me with REPUTABLE references. But i reiterate that on my ads.....Must have 2 REPUTABLE RECENT references from Eccie or P411.....

Just keep at it hun. And stay firm on your requirements. People really think if they have numerous okays then its all good. Well not for Kammye. I decide when its all good.


You dont like it. Keep it moving. 😊

1ThickBlonde speaks the truth