Squirting is not a circus trick

It's about time for a conversation on squirting. Since there is not a lot of factual information regarding squirting on the web, I thought some anecdotal evidence would be a fun topic.

Here is mine:

• It is not a circus act. I cannot do it on demand. When I feel pressured, it ruins the overall experience as I am so focused on a result that I can't enjoy the ride.
• Supposedly about 80% of women can do it. It takes an amazing amount of comfort and relaxation.
• Regarding the above comment. It is an unlikely occurrence the first time that I am with a a lover.
• I taught myself to squirt about 2 years ago after seeing a hottie do it in the swinger scene, she told me to research and practice, which I did.
• It does not happen by the same exact stimulation for everyone. While research can be handy, I have found both personally and with other women, that it is a very Individual thing.
• Even with knowing my body, it is something that I had to practice. Most of the time I am able to squirt by my own means of stimulation. This is not an insult to any of my partners or their abilities, nor does it equate to my level of satisfaction. It was a learned and practiced skill. Without having ongoing access to my vagina...it's a tough thing to learn.
• I have found it most regulated by my hormonal cycle, hydration and level of comfort.
• Medications effect squirting. In the Spring, I can choose to breath or squirt.
• I have amazing clitoral/vaginal orgasms with or without squirting. While amazing, it is simply an physical result of an orgasm.
• I have squirted most often when in multiple or group situations which is my personal preference. As we all have our kink, 3+ is mine.

Soooo...how do porn stars do it on demand???



Thanks to my friends in the porn industry, I have learned that it is most often not squirt at all, but water injected into the vagina prior to shooting and camera tricks afterwards. I hope that I didn't rain on anyone's parade...or maybe I did rain on yours, depending on who you are

As I mentioned, my experience. I look forward to hearing that of others.

A reminder that I do not provide any services other than my time. Any requests regarding anything other than that will be ignored.

All of the best!

Thanks for the information Ari. While I personally was aware of most the dot points (if pressured its difficult to do, no woman can just squirt on demand, medication affects a woman's ability to squirt etc) I'm sure there are some men who are now more knowledgeable on this subject. Being part of and witnessing a woman squirt is a very hot experience, but I agree it's something you can't pre-plan or pressure a woman to do to. It either happens in the moment or it doesn't.

Your prefered kink is 3+? That's a very arousing thought as 3+ is my preference too! Don't get to experience 3+ action nearly as much as I'd like to. I'd love to participate in one of your 3+ escapades someday!

Very informative, Arianna. My experience with squirters is very minimal, so it's interesting to get your perspective. I would imagine that each lady's abilities to squirt (and how they get to that point during stimulation) is as different as how different ladies achieve orgasm, whether through oral stimulation or actual intercourse.

Without having ongoing access to my vagina... Originally Posted by Ari816

We'd all like to have that ongoing access!

I've had the great fortune of being on the receiving end of several of Ari's squirting orgasms and found them to be very erotic.. I also had the distinct pleasure to be with her in a 3+ experience.. Gentlemen, I highly recommend you schedule and arrange that session thru Ari.. She did a masterful job of organizing and directing everything.. I was completely spoiled by all the attention I received and it's a night I'll never forget..

I have limited experience with squirters too. I dated a woman who was a squirter, but her "squirts" were less dramatic than the "geysers" you see on porn, where they look like they could put your eye out. LOL.

She would "gush" during DATY, but it was more of a heavy flowing than a squirting fountain. Just wondering how accurate the "shooting fountain" is that you see in porn?

I had a live-in girl friend for a while who did this nearly every time we had sex. I came to regard it as both a blessing and a curse. On the one hand it's really hot, on the other, it's a mess every nite.

Anyway, since that relationship ran it's course, I've kind of experimented, with varying degrees of success, and here's what I've gathered;

It doesn't seem to come about in a lovey dovey context, like slow and sensual doesn't do it, it's the extra-aroused, hyper-drive mindset that brings it on.

Posture seems to play a role, specifically legs splayed wide apart, typically with her on her back, or like sitting on a couch. I've never made it happen in doggie-type stance.

And requires direct clitoral stimulation, I guess that's obvious, but the timing, speed and method seems to be key; At the height of arousal(hard to measure, I know), you switch from a massage-type pace to a "frantic" one, with two fingers back and forth, really fast.

I think the Hatachi(vibe/massager) would do it as well, by just massaging with it off, then switching it on at the "right" moment, but haven't tried this yet, at least as part of initiating the squirt.

Never seen it, never got it done. Kinda grosses me out a bit.

I had to practice to squirt on my own also.

In my experience (limited as it may be) I've found most women I have been with have the capacity in one fashion or another. Be it a dramatic increase in lubrication or a bed drenching geyser. Watch out for the geyser girls though. Once you get them going you're going to need to phone housekeeping for extra towels. And clean sheets. And a scuba mask.

Anyway, since that relationship ran it's course, I've kind of experimented, with varying degrees of success ... . Originally Posted by Peter Devlin

I wonder if I could come up with a governmental grant to study this phenomenon of human sexuality?

Hey Ari: Want to be the subject of a lab experiment? You'll have to allow countless horny men (and women) to repeatedly work you into a squirting frenzy. With a government-funded expense account for shoes, of course.

A bit off topic, too, but when I saw Ari's thread title of it not being a "circus trick", I couldn't help to think about one of my favorite ELP songs, Karn Evil 9 -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UeQsZOQqO6I - "...seven virgins and a mule... Keep it cool, keep it cool." SOUND WARNING

Cuddlyteddybear- gushing is an accurate description of what usually happens. However, I have squirted like a geyser and seen other real life women too. I think the porn, at least in part is another story. I'm sure there are some real ones. Sign me up. We need some research. Shoes would be one of the necessities along with lots of other "supplies"

Swinger Chics squirt more than any group of women that I have ever met, which supports Peter's theory on the hyper drive, extra arousal of an orgy type situation for people who are professionals by day. I would add that the openness of the people involved also lends itself well to letting go of inhibitions.

Peter- how in the heck did I forget to mention the hitachi, the wonder stick. Anyone who does not own one, run out, jump online..order pronto. You are missing out. I have the best o's when the hitachi is involved...women and men love it.

Misawahawk- I respect that and can see how you would feel that way. It's not for everyone. I can tell you that it is not urine. It comes down the urethra which is why you have to completely empty your bladder. It usually has a slight honeysuckle watery taste. I think the true joy comes not just with the end result but in watching the woman quiver, scream and convulse. Still valid point. It can get messy. You could bring a snorkle and mask.

I agree, it's not for everyone, but when you're "out there" on the fringe, sexually, and a woman soaks you when you're dining on her delicates, it's sublime. JMO.

I definitely get a sense of pride when I can make a woman saturate the sheets. Sort of a "Look what I did!" moment. If there was a way to stick it on the refrigerator I would.

...I have the best o's when the hitachi is involved... ...watching the woman quiver, scream and convulse. You could bring a snorkle and mask. Originally Posted by Ari816

Ari's got me to the point now where I'm taking notes...

Ari, do you find it easier to squirt on your second and subsequent O's than on your first? I had a non-provider AA lady friend a few years ago that would have a "normal" orgasm on her first, but invariably any more that she had, she'd convulse to beat the band and, not really squirt, but GUSH would be a more accurate description. Whether it had anything to do with it or not, she had an enormous clit, too. Damn, I miss that just thinking about it....