what is bad DATY? Help me ladies!

So I've only been hobbying for about 6-7 months now but just about every provider I see seems to be impressed by a young AA(I'm actually Hispanic but you wouldn't know unless I told you) who can eat Pussy well.

Maybe because in my late teenage years porn for me evolved from simply settle pleasure into a tool for learning how to please a woman with my mouth. Mind you, my plumbing works just fine, but I feel like starting a session off with daty just makes the experience better. Even with my first, I ate her out before we made love... We were both 19 and she lost her mind when I did that lol... Still Loves me to this day even though we broke up.

So I say all this to ask: ladies, describe a bad daty experience please? I'd like to know what that even looks or feels like for y'all... Just curious and making conversation in the community =).

**** If you don't like DATY, this thread isn't for you, I respect ever person's taste, but not liking daty is a deal breaker for me! ***
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  • Trey
  • 01-18-2018, 05:20 PM
As an AA I gotta say not alot of us eat provider pussy. I know I dont. I'm thinking thats why they are impressed.
A lot of AAs actually don't eat Pussy at all...provider or not.
As an AA I gotta say not alot of us eat provider pussy. I know I dont. I'm thinking thats why they are impressed. Originally Posted by Trey
I get what you mean though, my cousin from South America thinks I'm a filthy animal for DATYing a provider. Every lady doesn't get that. Just like every guy doesn't get bbbj. YMMV.
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So you're the clean up man....okie dokie.... ;-)
So you're the clean up man....okie dokie.... ;-) Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel
This made me spit out my drink..
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This made me spit out my drink.. Originally Posted by Amiliah Rayne
So you're the clean up man....okie dokie.... ;-) Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel
Damn! You got me lmao.
Mic check 1 2 3....


Those Tards Coming In On There High Horse Because Every Whore Who Has Lied & Said They're God's Gift To Licking Pussy.. They're The Most Annoying Because 90% Of The Time They Ain't Doing Shit But Slobbering Like There Having A Seizure...

Not Every Woman Is The Same Just Like Not Every Winky I Touch Will Have The Same Reaction..

Tards Who Think Biting Turns You On When In Reality I Just Want To Punch You In The Face...

Guys Doing Daty Really Don't Do Shit For Me But It's Not About Me It's About You So I Deal With It...

I've Had A Few Make Me Feel Amazing But I Can Count Them On 1 Hand...

Amiliah
To all the gents who think it's "dirty" to daty a provider; do you feel the same about her bbbj'ing you? If not, you're a hypocrite.


Now, to answer the op.

I once had a gent start on me. I am very vocal and let anyone who has been there know exactly what I like.

So, I tell him and he starts. He does exactly what I told him not to do. Sucking and biting and the worst.

I tell him to stop pls and direct him on what to do....yet he continues w the rough stuff. I tell him to stop, again....but he persists. I finally sit up, like "Wtf dude?! That really hurt." Then I asked him why he continued to do exactly what I yelled at him to stop doing 3 times. His response? "Because he just wanted to " I could have slapped him.


That is usually what ruins daty. When the giver won't listen to what you want and does the entirely wrong thing.
Mic check 1 2 3....


Those Tards Coming In On There High Horse Because Every Whore Who Has Lied & Said They're God's Gift To Licking Pussy.. They're The Most Annoying Because 90% Of The Time They Ain't Doing Shit But Slobbering Like There Having A Seizure...

Not Every Woman Is The Same Just Like Not Every Winky I Touch Will Have The Same Reaction..

Tards Who Think Biting Turns You On When In Reality I Just Want To Punch You In The Face...

Guys Doing Daty Really Don't Do Shit For Me But It's Not About Me It's About You So I Deal With It...

I've Had A Few Make Me Feel Amazing But I Can Count Them On 1 Hand...

Amiliah Originally Posted by Amiliah Rayne

BITING!?!?! WTF? That's ridiculous. I get what you mean though, talk is cheap... Just like women who say they have a mean headgame but all I felt was dry teeth(true story).

Daty has much more to do with reading a woman's reaction then men think, that's what makes a true daty specialist. I'm not self advertising, because I'm a VERY picky hobbyist so I'm not interested in getting a bunch of PMs about come taste this.

But thanks for partially answering the question.... "slobbering plus seizure, biting" lmao!
To all the gents who think it's "dirty" to daty a provider; do you feel the same about her bbbj'ing you? If not, you're a hypocrite.


Now, to answer the op.

I once had a gent start on me. I am very vocal and let anyone who has been there know exactly what I like.

So, I tell him and he starts. He does exactly what I told him not to do. Sucking and biting and the worst.

I tell him to stop pls and direct him on what to do....yet he continues w the rough stuff. I tell him to stop, again....but he persists. I finally sit up, like "Wtf dude?! That really hurt." Then I asked him why he continued to do exactly what I yelled at him to stop doing 3 times. His response? "Because he just wanted to " I could have slapped him.


That is usually what ruins daty. When the giver won't listen to what you want and does the entirely wrong thing. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston
**looking for the amen with hands waving emoji*** yeah, I agree with a provider I met toady that says she wishes the ladies should recite the guys too lol. "Because I wanted to" s......m....h.
BITING!?!?! WTF? That's ridiculous. I get what you mean though, talk is cheap... Just like women who say they have a mean headgame but all I felt was dry teeth(true story).

Daty has much more to do with reading a woman's reaction then men think, that's what makes a true daty specialist. I'm not self advertising, because I'm a VERY picky hobbyist so I'm not interested in getting a bunch of PMs about come taste this.

But thanks for partially answering the question.... "slobbering plus seizure, biting" lmao! Originally Posted by Chaz6422
Just being honest
"Because I wanted to" s......m....h. Originally Posted by Chaz6422
Ikr? it's the same kind of guy who would rather drive around lost, than stop and ask for directions. Total male machismo thing.
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Always chew the kitty like jerky.