What is the appropriate Provider age range for a Mature Hobbyist? [the Griffin Question of the Day #2]

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What is the appropriate Provider age range that a mature Hobbyist should adhere to? i.e. Should a mature Hobbyist only see Providers one-half the Hobbyist' age or older? Or maybe no less than 20 years their junior?

I try to see Providers more closely age matched to mine; because, I do not think a young Provider would get off to having an older person trying to make love to them. This does not mean that I have not been with a less than 20 year-old Provider; and yes she was just as surprised as I was when she had an "O". But, was this Date appropriate?

I ask the question based on reading Hobbyist' reviews of Providers (way their junior in age) that give a negative ROS as to how and what occurred during the Date. Then read reviews of Hobbyist more closely aged matched who had a great time with the same Provider.

I would like to hear from the Providers on this topic.

[the Griffin Question of the Day]
Wakeup's Avatar
So...which provider is this an alternate handle for?
boardman's Avatar
Useless thread...
Maturity has nothing to do with age
So...which provider is this an alternate handle for? Originally Posted by Wakeuр
My money's on it being another sociology or psychology grad student doing research.
ICU 812's Avatar
I don't understand the question. If it is appropriate to hobby, then is is also acceptable to engage in sex involving a wide range of Kink. Widly separated ages is pretty mild in the hobby world.

To address the question:
Wnenever I want to be intimate with someone my own age I stay at home. when I hobby, I want someone younger . . .MUCH younger. Half my age is 30-ish. That is OK (usually great!) but < twenty can be terrific.

A famous poet once said, "More money, faster jorses, older whisky, younger women!"
Timk48's Avatar
Beauty, in the beholder's eyes, takes precedence over age.
doc_nasty123's Avatar
like big daddy Kane said. 8(teen) to 80, blind, cripple or crazy. Remember who the customer is and the customer is always right.
Yowzer's Avatar
What is the appropriate Provider age range that a mature Hobbyist should adhere to? i.e. Should a mature Hobbyist only see Providers one-half the Hobbyist' age or older? Or maybe no less than 20 years their junior? <snip> Originally Posted by Griffin
I hate questions that are absolute when refering to human beings that are not. What kind of question is "should adhere to?". Yes, certain younger providers like and are better with younger guys. And some older guys, like myself like both MILFs and younger providers (for different reasons in my case).

But there are younger providers that really dig older guys for the almost incestual aspect,and they also like that older guys will often (and I didn't say always) treat them better than some of the younger guys.

So trying to answer the questions of the day is really not possible. If you are looking for a list of younger providers who either like or don't like older guys is left for another forum. And again, it also depends on the older guy. I'm sure there are both nice and good looking older guys and fat ugly ones too. (and the same could be said about younger guys).

I've also read reviews that the guy (age unknown) raves about a provider's BBBJ or how much the provider Oed only to find almost the opposite. One man's great. best ever BBBJ is another's she was OK. And I figure us older guys would know better
Tobor the 8th Man's Avatar
Beauty, in the beholder's eyes, takes precedence over age. Originally Posted by Timk48
Crap. Screwed on both counts. Luckily, my euro-thong underpants made completely of Ben Franklins makes me look so young and handsome!
I see men of all ages, I mean we want to have fun and thats the bottom line. Explore and find what you like best. I take a "O" anytime I can get one lol. I am not 18 years old, but I'm sure my same clients who see me also see those younger providers. In the end its all fun. Enjoy
Griffin's Avatar
I don't understand the question. If it is appropriate to hobby, then is is also acceptable to engage in sex involving a wide range of Kink. Widly separated ages is pretty mild in the hobby world.

To address the question:
Wnenever I want to be intimate with someone my own age I stay at home. when I hobby, I want someone younger . . .MUCH younger. Half my age is 30-ish. That is OK (usually great!) but < twenty can be terrific. Originally Posted by ICU 812

Yes; but, does she get off to you sweating and grinding away at her 40 years younger body?

"I'm all about the love, baby. Yea!" If my Provider is not having a good time, then neither am I.
Brooke Wilde's Avatar
That is a tough one. I'd say 10 years younger or older, but I'm 29 and meet 60 year old clients all the time who I adore so I guess my 10 year rule wouldn't apply.

So my answer would have to be: as long as a provder is 21 and up, mature and is doing what she is doing by her own free will, then any age between 21 & 91 is okay with me.
pyramider's Avatar
As long as she is legal age ... she is mature.
That is a tough one. I'd say 10 years younger or older, but I'm 29 and meet 60 year old clients all the time who I adore so I guess my 10 year rule wouldn't apply.

So my answer would have to be: as long as a provder is 21 and up, mature and is doing what she is doing by her own free will, then any age between 21 & 91 is okay with me. Originally Posted by Brooke Wild

Ditto Brook, I love older, younger, I just love men. I love C**K lmao.
tyboy1's Avatar
Yes; but, does she get off to you sweating and grinding away at her 40 years younger body?

"I'm all about the love, baby. Yea!" If my Provider is not having a good time, then neither am I. Originally Posted by Griffin
It's all a fantasy they aren't for falling in love with. It's sex for money not making love. If they want you to come back they will show you a good time.
I've seen ladies from early twenties to their fifties, they are all fun and don't seem to have a problem with my age.