Sad but true

So, I saw a provider today that has always been willing to make accommodations to see me. she is not the first and it's happened more as of late. Now,flattering me always pumps my ego, and I'm not stupid enough to think I am god's gift to women nor are they that enamored with me or my so called skills. After all, it's a sales tool and they need the donation. But I felt the need to ask why she was so willing to make time for me when she could have said call me tomorrow and my donation is "X" so call me when you have it..
What she told me was kind of sad. Seems as though some of you have forgotten that these women are human beings. They like to be treated with some level of respect. Simple things like no means no and, simply because she's an escort doesn't mean you have to be an ass. She told me, that I have always been nice to her, showered and clean, and try to make sure she enjoys the date as well as I do.
I know some of you have a different attitude regarding the hobby but think about the person you're seeing. She is giving you something very personal and generally is in a tough spot. So don't abuse the privilege of her giving you the time and effort to make you feel good.
Rant over.

Yes. The word "sad" does come to mind.

So don't abuse the privilege of her giving you the time and effort to make you feel good.
Rant over. Originally Posted by youngatheart

Did u fvck the shit outta the nasty hoe? Whew

Nice post. We do care

Nice post. We do care Originally Posted by Legacy69

put yer ...plastic man ...at the center of that pic!

...what a great story showin ...if there were jus a little ...more love in the world the service ya ...receive from yer rent a cunts would improve

have you ever just casually OBSERVED

the treatment they get from


their


chosen

baby daddys?


there is absolutely NO WAY in fuck

they are treated worse here

id take a wild guess


that the great majority

cant respect any guy that PAYS them money to fuck




take a look beyond/ into the eyes some time

afterward

Too many times I have listened to hookers whine and wail about how impossible their lives are and how they never had a chance, usually due to the actions of the men in their lives, and usually starting with dear old dad. In most cases this is in the midst of a flagrant attempt at extracting more money.

999,999 times out of 1,000,000 this is immediately followed by either strangely manufactured rage or disinterest when the hook realizes she's not going to get her way.

I've seen hooks go from literally begging to, on a dime, screeching and shrieking like an enraged bag lady the instant it becomes clear that they're not getting a tip.

I think these are the hooks JB is talking about. Bad actors, victims of their own bad choices and deplorable taste in men, stupidity, poor judgment, etc.

I do think that hookers who maintain a sincerity and an innocence exist. Of course, they're rarely heard from on websites and they almost never have big mouths or unjustifiably inflated opinions of themselves.

I still don't quite get the sob story tactic. If I were a gent, I would rather see happy and well-adjusted hoes than pathetic and desperate ones.

Because the hook is unable to leverage sympathy into charity by pretending to be happy.

I still don't quite get the sob story tactic. If I were a gent, I would rather see happy and well-adjusted hoes than pathetic and desperate ones. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

Yes!

And even happy ones have some sob stories sometimes. I choose not to share these stories with the majority, occasionally a good regular but definitely not even all good regulars, because I'm not looking or interested in sympathy.

Because the hook is unable to leverage sympathy into charity by pretending to be happy. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Are you saying there's no such thing as a happy hooker?

If I were a gent, I would rather see happy and well-adjusted hoes than pathetic and desperate ones. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

That's why I tend to stay away from BP. Many of them are miserable and don't bother hiding it.

That's why I tend to stay away from BP. Many of them are miserable and don't bother hiding it. Originally Posted by cowboy8055

But misery loves company

That's why I tend to stay away from BP. Many of them are miserable and don't bother hiding it. Originally Posted by cowboy8055

I generally agree, established providers are more likely to be balanced people compared to typical BP fare.

Most of you seem to be missing the point. This isn't about how stable or unstable, happy or miserable the provider is, it's about how you (we) treat them. While it may be convenient to think of them as a piece of ass, they are human beings and giving something personal to you and usually pretending to enjoy it. The least we can do is be clean, nice and assholes.