IOP is overrated

Maybe it’s just me but the more “encounters” I have over the years the less I want the illusion of passion, or kissing etc. Anyone else like this?

Of course I still like passion and foreplay but it seems like I would rather get busy right way and have instant gratification after years and years of trying to figure women out. Lol. Thank God for this hobby

I like IOP. I have had sessions with girls that are deadpan and it wasn't as enjoyable, for me.

I get where you are cumming from, but I need the kissing still.. and variety.. I know guys who have fucked for so long, they only want a specific kind of girl.. I get that, intellectually, but viscerally I need a range, change, and strange, LOL..

IOP is never over rated at all.. helps brake the Ice and get a more comfy ..be foring going in

Ditto Gene
Raw Passion. Unbridled Lust. Soft Sensuality. The holy trinity of the hobby

IOP is way overrated!! It's not real. Fools what iop; and a fool and his money...Well............:thumb sup:

natural instinctual passion... NIP, skip all the fake stuff. I am not an IOP gal. It’s not a show, act or am I faking it so you think It’s real, no. I just enjoy sex, I’m an addict. I am also selective on clients, If I don’t think our personalities would be compatible I will not accept an appointment. So I am not a fan of the term IOP, at least in what I think I offer. I’m a genuinely passionate lover that will enjoy it and you wouldn’t have to question if it was IOP.

Ding ding ding. We have a winner! Yes exactly!!!
Just enjoy a good fuck or fuck the best you can and don’t make it something it’s not.

we like what we like ..
why do you think it's fake some of us have a hart about it !!

Just throw me on the bed and fuck me. You got it

Maybe it’s just me but the more “encounters” I have over the years the less I want the illusion of passion, or kissing etc. Anyone else like this?

Of course I still like passion and foreplay but it seems like I would rather get busy right way and have instant gratification after years and years of trying to figure women out. Lol. Thank God for this hobby Originally Posted by FunMonday

HELL naaw!! IOP is fucking awesome, 100/100. These fucking 'eww' girls (you know, the ones who act like they don't want you to touch them and vice versa, like sex is the ultimate evil...and want you to cum in 2 minutes, but pay for the whole time...and tips are appreciated) make me wanna leave the hobby and never come back. IOP is exciting and gets the blood flowing.

The 'eww' girls are the opposite. They barely touch you (oh, don'tcha just love the two finger dick grab) and want you to touch them even less, which means you're likely BORED AS FUCK through the whole process, which in turn means the little guy doesn't want to or struggles to cooperate...just like she wants.

Tell you what, you go see the 'eww' girls for a month or two straight (they're usually in the overpriced GPS section), and I'll see the IOP's, who, for a stretch there, makes you ACTUALLY believe she likes your old sorry ass for real.

To each his own.

Just throw me on the bed and fuck me. You got it Originally Posted by Tara Evans

This way is cool too, of course.

At my age IOP is as important as anything else. If a lady makes me believe that she is enjoying her time with me then I am very happy. I may be older now but I still enjoy the hell out of spending time with a lovely woman. If she makes me believe she is also enjoying it then she is an absolute winner for me!

we like what we like ..
why do you think it's fake some of us have a hart about it !! Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

I have no doubt LBG has a heart about it and I have no doubt providers can have sincere feelings and orgasms and desires. That’s a well established fact. That said even if you wanted to fuck us for free it’s still a business for you and a primal urge for us. And it should be an urge. By definition the IOP is not genuine. You may believe you are giving “passion” but you are actually selling it.
We may believe we are receiving passion but in fact we are purchasing it and hence the “illusion” until it’s time to step off the hamster wheel.

I’m not saying it’s bad (unless someone is getting mind fucked). I’m saying I would rather enjoy the physical aspects.

Noted, but it’s UNDERRATED IMHO. This is an integral part of any experience. I need my mind stimulated, too. Fake or not, if you’re both having fun, what difference does it make? Especially if you have real chemistry. Personally, I say bring it all to the table!

It’s difficult to get to truly know someone without multiple links. You can be physically attracted to someone, and the IOP just takes things to the absolute next level. So important. Even IOP still involves the word “passion”. Pr0n is a complete illusion, but it isn’t any less sexy.

It makes the climax that much harder, on both accounts.