Seeking Arrangements

Has anyone ever used this site (SA) ? Is it another fake site or is it beneficial?

I have used it for 6 months. There are a few scammers on it, so just never send money in advance of a meeting. That is a sure sign of a scam. Meet them for coffee first that way you can find out if they are a scammer. Plenty of the women on that site are not 100% working girls. They are girls looking for extra cash.

I could be wrong but just navigating through the site it seems to be like Ashley Madison or Friend Finders where I have wasted my time in the past. Some guys have been lucky but just curious as to the hit and miss of the site

So I was on there for 2 months
Extended interactions (emails/texts) with about 12 l.
2 were pros or semi pros (occasional ads on tryst and stg)
2 I met and had fun with multiple times
2 I came close to meeting just never got time to line up
6 scammers
You really don’t save that much money I paid about the same as I would a pro, but the non pro ones make it lot more fun (at least the 2 I met did)
You have that $100 monthly fee to be able to communicate with the ladies. There will be a lot of time involved, from weeding thru the stuff, making contact, trying to figure if they’re legit or scammers then trying to meet up.
If I had more time to sort thru the weeds I might have stayed plus I’m happy with my current 2.

* It is nowhere near as big a waste of time or money as Ashley Madison at least not for me.
* The younger and hotter the girls are that you pursue, the more likely they are scammers.
* I'm stunned at how many will flat out say they want money for an online relationship. Who is paying for that?
* Seeking is tough to manage in your home city if you are married. It is much better for the single man or that man who travels to specific cities often.

GreaseM, did I understand that correctly, 100 bucks a month? Just to join the site? WOW, that's money I could put towards a hh fee at one of the studios. Good grief. I could see 10 bucks or so a month, but wow. Thanks for the info tho. I know where I WON'T be joining.

WOW, $100 a month? That's crazy.
I've been wanting to hook up with some of the ladies on here when they come to town, but they've increased their rates to $350-$400 and I just can't do that. I'll pay $300, just not over that. I don't like haggling so I just don't message them Sucks

WOW, $100 a month? That's crazy.
I've been wanting to hook up with some of the ladies on here when they come to town, but they've increased their rates to $350-$400 and I just can't do that. I'll pay $300, just not over that. I don't like haggling so I just don't message them Sucks Originally Posted by mississippifunguy

Agreed and there’s only a few in that category

The way I did SA was I would join meet a few keepers play with them for awhile let my membership expire then a few months later join back up and repeat. I found a lot of quality young poon who were willing to spend a lot more time for what a pro who sees tons of nasty dick daily wanted for one hour. Then the pro's started using it and tons of scammers. If I see a pro I would pass her right up SA is about non pros dont waste your SA time on pros they are not going to give you what you can get from a regular girl who is looking for extra money. I agree with the meet someplace first and chat and if you have a connection go get a room. Some will ask for huge money but most will be happy to spend 2 or 3 hours for 3 bills some longer it just depends on how well you hit it off and if you get lucky and meet a legit girl who isnt a ho and who doenst have the ho mindset. I still see a few girls every now and then and I havent been a member in close to a year now. You do have to invest a fair amount of time trying to feel out girls to see if they are legit or not.

In the bigger markets guys trade info on SA girls and pass the good ones around. I would never do that. If you meet a cool young hottie who is happy fucking 3 or 4 hours for 300 dont tell anyone about her ever. There are guys who will pay her 600 for the same thing and still be way better off than fucking acutal ho's. So I say never give up your SA finds. Now thats just me I have no issue with you guys telling me all about the super stars you meet on SA. I promise I wont tell anyone and there is no way in hell I would ever try and steal a 20 something college girl who thinks that making 3 bills for fucking a fat old man for 4 hours is the greatest thing ever. Nope I will just see her every now and then and never try and make it where you have trouble getting in when you want to see her. After all you did the leg work and found the little hottie its only fair everyone who follows stays out of your way. Smh... Dont tell anyone about the truly good finds you make.

I've been on and off the SA website for a few years. I will join for a month then delete my account right before the month expires. I also don't fill out the profile portion. That eliminates the scammers and "girls" from all over the world writing you constantly. I've had good luck there meeting some great girls. It is probably a little more expensive but most of the real girls there are not meeting several men a day either so it is safer. You will have the added expense of having to get a room though. For the last several months there has been a reduced price of $66 for a month. I agree with the others here who say don't ever send money in advance. Also I've found it best to stay away from the girls who immediately send a phone number or other outside means of communication. The phone number girls are usually pros or I find it too risky to start trading texts with someone I don't know. The outside communication girls will start trying to get you to pay for pictures or videos with a cash app. It is best to let them know upfront that you are there to actually meet in person.

I guess I'm just a cheap skate. Probably why you guys all the sexy lady too. But I can't see paying $ for a monthly fee to a site, then pay money for pictures or video's of a girl, I may NEVER get to see, but all of this just TRYING to meet one, when I can go to an MP and see a lady for $.25 to $.5 and get my rocks off and come back as many times as my money holds out. (Which ain't a lot). But it's a sure fire way to find a lady that will that I don't have to hunt down. Now I DO see STG ladies from time to time. But only if I see one that is cheaper than go to a massage parlor. Just call me cheap!

I do agree with you in that it is more expensive and time consuming but there's just something about finding a non-pro that isn't meeting a bunch of guys that is appealing. I don't ever buy pics and videos but there are a lot of girls there who try to corner you into doing that. I was talking to a cute one this morning who seemed real but all of a sudden asked if she had to wait until we met to get money. I told her yes and haven't heard anything from her since. That's happens a lot but occasionally it all comes together and it does seem worth it. Its just my personal preference though but I can sure understand your's.

I’ve been on there for a little while .. it’s not too bad .

I got Blackballed from there!������

GreaseM, did I understand that correctly, 100 bucks a month? Just to join the site? WOW, that's money I could put towards a hh fee at one of the studios. Good grief. I could see 10 bucks or so a month, but wow. Thanks for the info tho. I know where I WON'T be joining. Originally Posted by Guitar

There is no cost to being able to create a profile, look at women on the site, see there pictures (including private photos). It cost $99 / month (they run specials from time to time of 25% to 33% off) to be able to communicate and get their phone number.