Describe what the hobby means to you right now.

As a musician I relate and express threw music, this song expresses how I feel about the hobby right now

Vance Joys

" Mess Is Mine"

Talking like we used to do
It was always me and you
Shaping up and shipping out
Check me in and check me out

Do you like walking in the rain?
When you think of love, do you think of pain?
You can tell me what you see
I will choose what I believe

Hold on, darling
This body is yours,
This body is yours and mine
Well hold on, my darling
This mess was yours,
Now your mess is mine

Your mess is mine

See you in the marketplace
Walking 'round at 8am
Got 2 hours before my flight
Luck be on my side tonight

You're the reason that I feel so strong
The reason that I'm hanging on
You know you gave me all the time
Or did I give you all of mine?

Hold on, darling
This body is yours,
This body is yours and mine
Well hold on, my darling
This mess was yours,
Now your mess is mine
Ooooh
Now your mess is mine
Oooh
Your mess is mine

Bring me to your house
And tell me "sorry for the mess"
Hey, I don't mind
You're talking in your sleep
All the time
Well, you still make sense to me
Your mess is mine

Your mess is mine
This body's yours and this body's mine
Your mess is mine



(FWI your mess is a good thing! )

Express what the hobby feels like to you, doesn't have to be threw music lyrics.


IB

Pretty much sums it up.

Just wanted to be under you one more time SA Angel. It has been too long.

The hobby means a source of intelligent, playful and safe sensual playmates, with no intended lifelong binding obligation from either party. (each party may or may not become enamored, but should be able to keep things in perspective even if they favor each other, maybe more than others) It means grateful friends who do not judge despite their own participation in the hobby, a roof over my head, sexual satisfaction, and food in my belly.

For each of these, I am grateful every day for this hobby, and those who choose to contact and/or come to play with me......

Just wanted to be under you one more time SA Angel. It has been too long. Originally Posted by 82luke

Aww, thanks sweetheart. It really have been.

The hobby means finding someone to love for a day or an hour, without him asking me if I want to marry him. It means having perfect dates! We talk about whatever we want! No arguments, lot of laughter and heavy breathing... That's perfection to me.

Ran across this post by chance. Saw your lyric response. What does the hobby mean to me? That I am divorced and alone and so desparate for affection I do this. I would not be a hobbyist if I had a relationship.

Trisha Yearwood "Like we never had a broken heart"
Don't be afraid to hold me tight
You know I won't break in two
What we're doin' here tonight
Sure beats what we're goin' through

We've both loved and lost before
You know the sadness it can bring
Tonight let's close the door
And hold on to the nearest thing

Let's keep hangin' on
So we won't fall apart
Let's make love tonight
Like we never had a broken heart

Don't be afraid to close your eyes
Pretend I'm someone that you love
And I won't have to tell you lies
'Cause it's not you I'm thinkin' of

Let's keep hangin' on
So we won't fall apart
Let's make love tonight
Like we never had a broken heart

Tonight we'll just pretend
We've been in love right from the start
Let's make love again
Like we never had a broken heart
Let's make love again
Like we never had a broken heart
Don't be afraid to close your eyes

Participating in The Hobby is, for me, an act of afermation and independence.

I am older now and not quite the man I used to be in many ways. I have a disability that makes me dependent on family for transportation. My family is close (a good thing), but loving concern can become hovering.

When I schedule a session (rarely now) I am reaching out to find a bit of my former self, and to say, "Yes I can.", in more than one way.

The hobby has been a wonderful journey for me.

When I started in Feb 2014, I was 45, and I had only been with 2 woman in my life. I had been working hard, made a great career, but sacrificed a lot for my family. So I felt it was time to do something for me, especially while I was still young enough.

Fast forward to today, I had the pleasure of meeting 30+ new woman, seen the ones I liked several times. I have had several doubles, even one triple, and I still feel like I am just starting out. I made it a goal to see woman of as many ethnicities and backgrounds, and I feel I have grown a great deal.

I was able to spend overnights and weekends with my favorites. I don't know how long I will do this, and I don't want to think of how much I will spend on the most expensive hobby I have ever taken up, but I am enjoying every moment.

I am looking forward to taking a trip with the friend who introduced me to this lifestyle. We are going to Oxygen in DR, and we will have a blast. Might even go for a quad........

No regrets, just looking forward.

DNG