Faking an Orgasm

So if there’s not:

1.An increase in the pace of her breathing
2.An increase in body temperature and heart rate
3.A high state of tension in her muscles (hypertonicity)
4.A tightening of the abdominal muscles
5.A throbbing of her PC muscles and a general “bearing down” on the pelvic area


....she might be a phony lover.

It is said the loudest moaners and screamers are most times the biggest fakers.

So, guys do you notice immediately if a woman is faking an orgasm? Can you tell the difference??

Ladies, is it hard for you to reach your climax so you fake an orgasm every now and then? Are you a screamer...a moaner?? Do different positions help you orgasm better than others?

Or......is sex an act? Is faking orgasms part of the job??

I am not a screamer or a moaner. It is harder for me to get off during daty and I am a squirter! I am a bad actress and usually dont role play because of it. That's why I am more of a sensual lover....GFE all the way.

Well I can usually tell when their jay jay clamps down on my pole like a vice or if my head is between their legs and all of sudden it is like my head is in a vice. Or her eyes roll back in the head. And the breathing and spasming gets more than normal.

Interesting topic Gemma, I would hope none of my dates I have been with have been faking that would suck and not in a good way.

Hell, women are so different in how they show or reflect an orgasm, that I quit trying a long time ago to figure out whether she did or not. I mean I always give it my best shot, and I'm open to suggestions when offered, but I don't judge the experience by whether she (or for that matter me) has an orgasm. The only time that I feel pretty confident that the lady has had an orgasm is when there has been a rather slow, steady build up in reactions and responses to what's going on between us followed by some expression of release however subtle or explosive. Like I said, everyone is different, but few fake "O's" seem to have a real build up.

I have a little penis so I can't get deep enough to know if she clamps down

Well I can usually tell when their jay jay clamps down on my pole like a vice or if my head is between their legs and all of sudden it is like my head is in a vice. Or her eyes roll back in the head. And the breathing and spasming gets more than normal.

Interesting topic Gemma, I would hope none of my dates I have been with have been faking that would suck and not in a good way. Originally Posted by Grizzly

LOL! Eyes rolling back in her head??

Hell, women are so different in how they show or reflect an orgasm, that I quit trying a long time ago to figure out whether she did or not. I mean I always give it my best shot, and I'm open to suggestions when offered, but I don't judge the experience by whether she (or for that matter me) has an orgasm. The only time that I feel pretty confident that the lady has had an orgasm is when there has been a rather slow, steady build up in reactions and responses to what's going on between us followed by some expression of release however subtle or explosive. Like I said, everyone is different, but few fake "O's" seem to have a real build up. Originally Posted by lawyerinjeans

I agree. A slow build up seems to make the sex more passionate and explosive. Makes for a nice orgasm.

LOL! Eyes rolling back in her head?? Originally Posted by Gemma34

Yupp only happened once

As long as they don't fall asleep I'm happy.

I'm most definitely a moaner, it's so tough to get me off during daty or any other act for that matter...my kitty likes to be pet a very specific way and honestly "mixing it up"as guys seem to think helps just isn't the case for me!! I too am a very sensual lover taking sweet time and doing exactly as ii say when it comes to climax is the best thing any man can do ;p

I always feel so guilty when ii have to lie about getting off....but unless they ask it's just my secret

It's a business and one of us is going to get off at least.
We pay for a show, and acting.
I would say most of us clients love everything.
Fake or not.
Most of the time we leave very happy.
Mission accomplished.

nothing beats the foaming at the mouth....nvm that's not an orgasm.... someone call an ambulance!

I'm most definitely a moaner

I always feel so guilty when ii have to lie about getting off....but unless they ask it's just my secret Originally Posted by yored89

Pleasing the guy is the MOST important thing, so I'm with ya girl! You moaner you!! LOL

nothing beats the foaming at the mouth....nvm that's not an orgasm.... someone call an ambulance! Originally Posted by KCAZN

Definitely, most definitely not an orgasm there. Now, I may suffer from cotton mouth as my soaking wet cat is draining all my body fluids, but never foaming at the mouth.

I thought I gave a provider a orgasm, but she was just trying not to sneeze.

I thought I gave a provider a orgasm, but she was just trying not to sneeze. Originally Posted by i'va biggen

LOL, Noooo!! I hate feeling like I gotta sneeze when performing fellatio services on a guy!

well Gemma so what if you borrowed this article from another source. It is easy to forget to cite a source lol lets hang Gemma out by her toenails because, holy hell she borrowed an article without citing.

Holy shark bait Batman, this ain't fucking grammar school and who really gives two shits if someone borrowed something and copied it here. I for one found this post quite entertaining and interesting.

Move along their is nothing to see here. I for one Gemma appreciate each and every one of your posts, it shows the human side of this business.