I just corresponded with a nice man in chat.
He told me that he thought being a Domme was all about spanking and whipping someone.
IT ISN'T.
The realm of BDSM is EROTICISM.
It could consist of tying someone up and rubbing bodies, or "making" someone worship you.
It could be talking dirty and sitting on their face.
It could be tying someone up and blowing them.
It could be "making them" do doggie and making them cum until they were spent and drained completely.
...or putting my panties on them and blowing them.
I also enjoy whipping and spanking them while we have sex too...or before while their butt is still warm and stinging!