Is this behavior "in our blood" ? We keep cummin back...

I have my reasons for continuing to come back to the hobby. I take a "holiday" now and then because of the stress I might be encountering from outside sources.
However........I ALWAYS long for it.....and I miss it when I'm gone!

Is it just an additiction?
or....is it truly in our blood?

do you think we all are reincarnations of the participants of the ROMAN BATHS ???

GingerB
MasterTrucker's Avatar
I doubt there is a "blood" relationship, but I can see where if you enjoy the hobby and its all good for you then you would want to continue.

I think the term addiction indicated a negative, do you feel it has had a negative impact on your life?
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  • Txh64
  • 06-17-2010, 12:19 PM
GingerB,

It may be, but all my blood is concentrated in one area thanks to your avator. Love the daisy dukes.
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  • CDL1
  • 06-17-2010, 12:43 PM
Interesting post, GingerB.

I have met some really neat people here and have learned a lot from them. Just meeting someone new and learning something is worth the price of admission.

Take care
After a very recent and tragic heartbreak, I've decided that rather than sit around in an empty house feeling sorry for myself I've decided to ease back into the hobby after I've had a chance to unthaw a bit. Outsiders can say what they want to about s hobbyists and providers and our lifestyle, but I have had the opportunity to meet some damn fine people on this board, and the hobby in general.

kudos.
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I may come across as philosophical here, but I think it is the thrill of the secrecy of the hobby. Those of us who partake in this hobby lead a "double life" to a large degree. Our "civilian" friends would not understand and never know what we do. There is a bit of a thrill or rush in that regard. Just my two cents.

Oh, and guys get to bang hot gals who they never could otherwise...
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Me, I just like to fuck. Not being flip, just honest. I think, like Ginger, we all grow cool, frustrated, even pissed off with things from time to time, but then that old itch comes back and you just gotta scratch.
Thrill-seeking, for sure.
I may come across as philosophical here, but I think it is the thrill of the secrecy of the hobby. Those of us who partake in this hobby lead a "double life" to a large degree. Our "civilian" friends would not understand and never know what we do. There is a bit of a thrill or rush in that regard. Originally Posted by TheGiftedOne
Interesting analysis TGO.....however...it is not the thrill that keeps me cumming back. Call me weird....if you must. Even if I had all the $$dough in the world....I probably would still participate in this hobby....in some way shape or form....and I wouldn't give a shit what anyone thought.

Gonzo - you might be right...I just like to fuck. But I also like the hunt.

Master Trucker - this hobby does not necessary in all ways have a negative impact on my life....that is unless my "outside sources" get savy to what I'm doing. Otherwise.....I am happy as a lark.

We can contemplate this forever....and perhaps we can get a government grant to ignite a research project? I've seen some bizare funds being pulled from big brother....like the project to research if pantyhose DID in fact reduce the fat from the thighs? Yes....the government funded this. Can you imagine? It was run by two college students who would go to the malls.....get girls to hike up their skirt....and measure their thighs!!
Whhoooaaa.....smart chaps they were!

Anyways...as I take a deep breath....I'm glad that I've returned to the board....and look forward to my next appt!!!

Cheers!
oh....btw...thanks for the compliment txh64 (quote: all my blood is concentrated in one area thanks to your avator. Love the daisy dukes)

kisses!
GingerB
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Ginger, If by "the hunt" you mean the constant search for new pussy (or in your case, a variety of cocks), I'm with you. But there's not much hunt in coming up with the cash and slotting an appointment. But it's all good. I've only had one bad visit in this hobby.
Hell yes I love to fuck. I love to fuck lots of different women. Actually I have an addiction to fucking lots of different women. Even when I can't !

Love the hunt. Love the tension when walking up to the door and meeting a provider for the first time. Love speaking when them upon arrival knowing I will be viewing their genitals shortly. Love exploring, with all my sense, a new woman. Love making judgements about them !

Damn Ginger ! You arre f***n hot. I saw your pic crawling up the stairs in a different post. Damn...
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  • Surge
  • 06-22-2010, 12:07 PM
...Those of us who partake in this hobby lead a "double life" to a large degree. Our "civilian" friends would not understand and never know what we do. There is a bit of a thrill or rush in that regard. Just my two cents.

Oh, and guys get to bang hot gals who they never could otherwise... Originally Posted by TheGiftedOne
TGO, couldn't have said it better myself, I LOVE the escape...to be something else...i have come to realize that its THAT escape that actually keeps me from going crazy and also makes me appreciate all that i have!

Me, I just like to fuck.... Originally Posted by Gonzo DFW

Yeah, who are we kidding...me too, Gonzo, me too!



BTW, Ginger...its asses like yours (OMG) that keeps me here!
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For me, it's both! I love the hobby! Most days that is...
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I think it is the strange, the risk of doing something questionable, and the honesty of what the interlude is all about - no bullshit!
I simply love to meet interesting people,
discuss ones thoughts, feelings and/or life experiences
and then discover the pleasure boundaries that lie within.
And the fact that Hobbyists have over 3,000 women to choose from.

After 20-years of marriage, and Divorced since 2002
The Hobby is the "Sweetest Taboo"
Everyday is Christmas and Every Night is New Years Eve.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kcPc1...eature=related


And my Sig line has more videos
if you listen to the words, you will know what i am trying to say.

CG