Interested in the hobby...

So I am new at this and I have been exploring for about 1 year now. I have not met any women here yet, but I have been p411 verified. I guess what is holding me back is the concern for getting caught essentially.

I am married and I do value my marriage. However, I would like to get some needs met that I can't at home.

With that said, I',m concerned about a couple of things.

1. safety... getting robbed etc...
2. Getting an STD
3. Getting my money's worth

I would love some insight on how to get going into the hobby. I am very interested in finding the right girl to stay with. I'm not really looking for a variety of women. Of course the good ones have their guard up too it appears... and rightfully so.

Thoughts?

Keep downloading the porn.

Really... why is that?

Really... why is that? Originally Posted by fourgotmyname

Don't always take him (P) too seriously.

Right... I wasn't... with an avatar like that! Just would really like to learn the ins and outs of this hobby.

1. Do your research on the available providers. Ladies that have been reviewed on multiple sites are your safest bet.
2. Keep covered.
3. Communication - tell the lady what you like. Of course, the really good ones know pretty instinctively what a guy likes. And this is also where the reviews come in.

Is there more danger with out-call versus in-call?

You want an incall. Where you visit the lady. I see you are in Dallas. I was in Dallas once in 1981. For as long as it took to drive thru. That is as much as I know about Dallas.....other than it is paradise as far as the hobby is concerned.

I'm in Nebraska.....and hobby in Denver and Omaha. I don't have a dog in this fight. But, you say you are approved thru P411....which should make things easier.

So, if you wish, I will happily, even publicly, walk you through the process of selecting your first provider. It's not that hard. And, yes, I was terrified when I saw my first lady. So I know how you feel right now.

I can tell you how to minimize various risks. But, know this: there IS risk. You could get caught. You could get an STD. Your wife could find out.

If you cannot contemplate life after one of these events.....go no further.

Lets start with minimizing... I understand the risks of getting caught... The one I am not so sure of is the STD... that is a tough one for me.

To start with I am interested mostly in BBBJTCWS... Like I said... to start...

Either make the Search tab your friend or download porn.

Either make the Search tab your friend or download porn. Originally Posted by pyramider

Ahhh I've mastered those... on to the next challenge.

Stick with downloading porn. Now do you properly care for your wife's taint? Post a photo.

Lets start with minimizing... I understand the risks of getting caught... The one I am not so sure of is the STD... that is a tough one for me.

To start with I am interested mostly in BBBJTCWS... Like I said... to start... Originally Posted by fourgotmyname

STD is always gonna be a possibility.....though low for BBBJ. Is she clean and fresh and healthy? Are you? Personal hygiene is probably your best defense. Shower afterwards. Use antibacterial soap. If you are asking her to swallow, she's taking a bigger risk than you.

Get tested regularly.

DON'T DO IT! DON'T GO TO THE DARK SIDE...
If you do partake, recommend reading the SECURITY forum - it has great advise.
If you do embark on the hobby, couple of things - (1) Research, research, research - this forum, TER, and a few others will ensure that the lady you meet is legitimate and reputable lady; (2) consider a verification site/service - P411, DateCheck are a few - it makes it easier for you to meet ladies and for the ladies to verify you; (3) invest in a cheap DUMB, not SMART HOBBY phone that you use for the hobby only; (4) create a HOBBY e-mail account (preferably not yahoo/gmail but non-attibutable service; (5) do NOT access HOBBY account from work - depending upon where you work, they may scan your account; (6) DO NOT START... if you do (7) think with your BIG head and remember the three most important words - research, research, reseach...
Enjoy and be safe...welcome to the Dark Side

Lets start with minimizing... I understand the risks of getting caught... The one I am not so sure of is the STD... that is a tough one for me.

To start with I am interested mostly in BBBJTCWS... Like I said... to start... Originally Posted by fourgotmyname

Hey....some of us ladies have real lives too and having to face all these risks. You are afraid of getting STD but you're wanting BBBJTCWS? I guess you don't care about the lady's health if you want her to swallow?
I think I will agree with pyramider on this one...I'm sorry.