Gifts

I notice rarely do guys bring gifts anymore. What happened? Or is it just here in Arkansas? Recently, I met a guy off ec who brought me wine and my favorite alcoholic beverage. It was very sweet and thoughtful, and for sure made an impression. I will over cater to them and I always remember the ones who gets us a gift or leaves a nice tip.

There are by far way more guys who stand out than those who don't..I tend to forget the ones who do nothing special real quick. Sorry, there's just not much to set apart from the others. If you want to be one that stands out, then do more....I always bump the guys at the top of my list who I know bring a gift or tip. Just like with any business, supply & demand. If the restaurant is extremely busy, I will slip the hostess a tip and I have a table in 5 minutes...works the same with us



What do y'all normally do? Tip or not? Gift or not? And why if so...

Personally, it just depends on the interaction and the connection. I saw a provider once a year ago, and for me it was a toe curling experience. And for some reason or another our timings have been off and we were never able to get together again. Here not long ago we were texting and she mentioned that it's been forever since she got floweres from anyone, so for some time now I have been leaving her flowers for her once a week at a park near her place with a promise that as long as I'm in the area she will always have flowers. Our timing is still off, and we have yet to set a second date, but every woman deserves flowers.

I'm more than willing to pony up for $300-$400hr, IF she is GFE, on time ,clean etc. For that amount she better give a ridiculous illusion of passion to get a "Tip". (I've never been turned down a 2nd date)

My advice? Raise your rate $50 and get your tip built in. Now, every one is memorable.

I love gifts but i don't expect them, i think the gesture is very sweet when im given one. My first encounter on this site i was given roses and i still smile when i think about it

I value my clients based on how they treat me; whether they are kind, respectful, considerate & reliable. Gifts or flowers are always nice, but they aren’t a requirement to be memorable. A gentleman who has chosen to spend his hobby time with me is a gift in itself! That’s more than enough for me to appreciate. And I always give my best, regardless of whether there are tips or gifts.

Any lady who expects such things or gives a lesser experience based on the absence of those things… comes across as slightly entitled & demanding to me. The thought behind a gift is what makes it special, and that’s ruined if the recipient demands it.

Ginger, you seem to always have your shit together and provide the most level-headed input to the discussion. This time is no different. I agree wholeheartedly.

Ginger, you seem to always have your shit together and provide the most level-headed input to the discussion. This time is no different. I agree wholeheartedly. Originally Posted by Portrush

Thank you, hon.

let me just say this when im in vegas and see a girl she tips me , i have been given arrangements of flowers ect and things i collect, now thats a novel ideal

Great responses from everyone. I enjoy tipping and/or bringing gifts. I normally don’t do that on a first date, but if they left an everlasting impression on me, I’ll tip them and will see them again for sure. I usually bring gifts to my favorite top ladies to show I appreciate them very much. I don’t know why, but it makes me happy when they’re happy. I’ve also received random gifts from said ladies, and that makes me appreciate them even more and will continue seeing them. It’s all about the small and thoughtful gestures!

Couldn't agree with you more Parttime, I am the same way. And Ginger is definatelly on my ATF list.

Couldn't agree with you more Parttime, I am the same way. And Ginger is definatelly on my ATF list. Originally Posted by MercerFray

Thanks! And yes, Ginger is bae and she knows it! ;-)

Interesting discussion! Thanks guys and gals this was very informative!

Yes giving gifts are nice jesters, I have been known to give gifts once I get to know you and have seen you more than once.

On a side note: a "client" that sees you multiply times over years might enjoy a small gift in return other than your services.

Nobody said they expected gifts, all I said is it rarely happens anymore. And when it does happen that guy is just remembered a little more.

Please don't retwist my words...if I didn't cater to my clients I wouldn't have so many returns. And I treat them all the same as far as having a wonderful time.

Just like us ladies do extra things in our dates to set up apart...

I know one gift that providers should give to their clients and that is peace & quite, something they don't get at home, so they come to us for a relaxing drama free time.

I love gifts but i don't expect them, i think the gesture is very sweet when im given one. My first encounter on this site i was given roses and i still smile when i think about it Originally Posted by Jessika Sweetz

I'm the same way, but like you just said you still to this day remember him for that. That was the whole point in my post before it got took wrong..

They're remembered more, because they did something to stand out. I had a guy in Denver give me a sentimental necklace of his. I still have it and it was so sweet & that is how I remember him. Just like your Rose guy it just leaves us with a nice mark to remember them in the future.