I'd like to get some input and feedback from members here. First off I'm seriously considering giving the hobby a try but by no means am I new to seeing someone on the side.
I wanted to ask what do I need to do to get started? I see some people who are screened and/or verified...what does this mean and how do I go about getting started with this process? Would most be agreeable with a hotel room? I cannot host at my home, which I'm sure many understand. I'm just wanting to understand what options are available and typically expected.
What got me seriously considering this is that for a time I did see someone for over a year and that was mutual between us. After that, I explored some of these sugar dating sites and I was immediately turned off because of the sheer level of entitlement and arrogance I would find with so many women there. So I did want to ask for honest feedback from people here to determine if what I'm wanting is unrealistic or just plain ridiculous.
I'm hoping that I can find just one person locally I could see on occasion, maybe just once a month but frankly it would just take honest communication between us considering my work schedule can be pretty demanding at times and I realize she too will have a schedule of her own. I like to be able to connect a little with someone too, having the ability to get to know them as a person, perhaps just chatting whenever we can or even just meet up for lunch sometime. It helps me become more comfortable with someone. I would hope that if there is interest and a little bit of chemistry it could work out into something long term but I realize everyone has different expectations too.
So just give it to me straight, am I just kidding myself about being able to find someone like this?