Gentlemen: I would like to know if not offering this is a deal breaker?
Ladies: Is risking your health really worth the money?
Never risk your own health or safety for anything. as far as GFE if you offer it then do it and be genuine about it. if you do not then say you do not. Too me it is not a ruler breaker. I have a few regulars I see for GFE if I am in the mood for it and if i am not I know who to reach out too.
If you are talking bbfs then yes it's a deal breaker for me. I will not do that at all! Crazy! If you are talking bbbj then no it's not a deal breaker for me. Honestly I prefer the cbj over the bbbj for my safety so I don't usually look for that service. I have experienced both but that's just my preference. With the gfe I do like the ladies who like to kiss passionately but honestly I've only meet two in the many years that I've been doing this. Lite pecks on the lips seem to be the norm for some reason for me. For me I'm more of a looks guy then services so as long as you don't have strip club rules ( basically don't touch me or play with me at all lol) I'm open to seeing anyone. I usually like to ask the lady when we get together what she likes, dislikes so I know that she is truly enjoying herself with me. I like to please too and being with ladies who are pretending to enjoy themselves doesn't do it for me. Safety should be the most important thing guys and ladies should look for but you have all kinds in this industry. Like mistaken said don't jeopardize your safety to make a $$ because it only takes one mistake and you have a std for the rest of your life. Just be safe, respect one another and in the end have fun!!!
I have been wondering about this. I recently made the switch from full gfe to covered gfe. I feel like it is just too risky. No offense to anyone who wants or provides. I am just no longer at a point in my life and career where I wish to provide that.
Play safe & have fun!
xoxo
I guess it can be considered a deal breaker to some people. But it is probably business you do not want. There a lot of providers who offer certain BB services and they have them listed on their sites and reviews. There a few that do not and have limited or covered GFE in the end it is your body and your future. I would not risk it for a life time off pain and agony when I could have just covered up and be safe. IF I am searching for certain things I know where to look for it. Just be honest about it and post it so I do not waste your time and I do not waste mine.
I am shocked by the number of ladies who do not offer female condoms. Guess its a brothel offering mostly
Health before wealth! Lol. No amount of money is ever worth the risk in my opinion and if it's a deal breaker then oh well. I provide gfe but no bb. It's fun to have fun but health is absolutely a priority. Should be for everyone.
Thank you guys for your response. What I gather is that I was kind of confused and so are a lot of people. My first thought when I hear GFE is bare because that is what a lot of ladies that are fairly new to this life thinks of it as. Yeas back PSE referred to bare services and GFE referred to really just a more sensual and enjoyable experience. But now that the meaning of it on ECCIE is cleared up for me. Covered GFE, I can definitely offer. Once again, thank you guys.
GFE is all about the IOP, nothing more. Bare back is an entirely different animal and I truly do not get how anyone in the adult industry could put themselves at that level of risk.
I was wondering why so many women were putting themselves at risk like that, but now I know that most women are actually going by the true definition of GFE meaning that they are not doing bare. It makes me feel so much better, because I was really thinking that I can possibly compete with women offering bare.