I am a formerly active hobbyist with no current references. Any suggestions on how to get back in the game? All my former beautiful friends have retired to my knowledge. Any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Find our newbie friendly list stickied at the top of co-ed
Or
Maybe one of your lovely ladies whotelisted you on TER if you had a handle there before?
Or
Trusty p411
Write thoughtful witty helpful posts. Make fun of the bullies. Banter. Don't take yourself, or your persona, too seriously. Then check your PM's. The offers will come from near and far, with nary a request for references. You will have established yourself as not only safe (as "safe" as an anonymous fellow can be) but as desirable. Good luck.