I don't know about "strip clubs", but if you join Fet Life, you can cruise your local forums and get the 411 on all the "private" kink parties that go on around town. You usually have to attend a few munches first, get to know some of the "regulars" and prove you are not an utter freak, and then get invitations to them. They usually take place at people's homes or "after hours" at venues. And since they are private, all sorts of shenanigans go down there.
And the best part is, bc they are kink parties there is no mention of compensation for such and such. These are all mutual perverts who want to get down.
Not that I would know from personal experience, or anything......