I had to tell my SO about phoenixxx.. Our monies started to combine and there was a obvious ass increase in the cash flow & deposits that my salary ( from working at the office) couldnt explain..... He asked and I told the truth. And that opened up a space for random low blows for a while. He's out on the rig & thinks I'm just at home ya know ...shopping LOL ugh
Living a double .. Triple ... Life that you cannot be open about is HARD as hell !! Being a woman .... A provider mother ...student and future wife trying to STAY SANE dealing with some of the not so nice men that you occasionally come across in this business. dont get me wrong. I LOVE IT
And it's nothing wrong with what you're doing OWN IT but it IS something wrong with the way you will be thought of and treated from that moment that they find out even though they might not express judgement.
OH and don't mess up and let a hater find out who you are & what you do. That's a whole other ballgame.
In my opinion either keep it to yourself....or come out with it asap if asked by someone you feel deserves the truth. and then you will be at peace being exactly who you are... A badass MF at least that's how I feel on the clock