Isn't that a bit hypocritical though? Originally Posted by Naomi4u
Isn't that a bit hypocritical though? Originally Posted by Naomi4u
How am I a hypocrite? I do not have a bf or husband . However, if I did have a serious bf which I was committed to or married then NO I would not do anything to jeopardize or end that relationship--including the hobby, Id quit for good. I'm not a materialistic person and a million bucks wouldn't mean shit to me if I lost the person I loved the most. Originally Posted by ChellablaineI think there is just a misunderstanding... I know I was reading it another way... as if you would still be in the biz... so it sounded like "I can sleep with someone for money but not my SO."
I think there is just a misunderstanding... I know I was reading it another way... as if you would still be in the biz... so it sounded like "I can sleep with someone for money but not my SO."Exactly what I meant Ms. Madisson. Thank you.
But, I agree with you, if I was not in the biz, then I would say no too. Of course, in 93, when the movie came out, I was in a relationship where my SO at the time and I where swingers... so letting him sleep with someone for a million would have not been a big deal since we were doing it for free with friends... LOL
I don't think Naomi meant anything bad...
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Lea Originally Posted by Lea Madisson
How am I a hypocrit? I do not have a bf or husband . However, if I did have a serious bf which I was committed to or married then NO I would not do anything to jeopardize or end that relationship--including the hobby, Id quit for good. Im not a materialistic person and a million bucks wouldn't mean shit to me if I lost the person I loved the most.That truly is the best philosophical position to take. If you are unencumbered by romantic alliances, play safely to your heart's content. Nobody and nothing is hurt by that course of action, except for a gentleman's bank account. If you are involved in a committed relationship, however, forego hobbyist activities altogether until such time as that relationship has been severed. You will respect both yourself and your partner more if you do so.
And I wouldnt want him to do it either... Originally Posted by Chellablaine