Providers that take over....

So who are the providers that get aggressive and seemingly beg for you to get after it? Typically your new person you want to have a little warm up/feeling out, but who are the ladies that seemingly "attack" you? I always have this awkward moment where we are getting naked and it seems a little less "exciting."

I think its like that for the first meet for me until I know what that client likes because of course everyone is different. But if I know thats what you're expecting, then I'll jump on you and undress you myself once the door shuts behind you. Providers are just cautious, myself included, that sometimes if we give the ok to get a little rough, some over do it. And it makes a bad session

I can't imagine being rough because that isn't my nature, but I am also a big guy and have been called "intimidating." Mostly a big sweetie but I can see where that can be an issue. I still look at it as a business transaction. Like getting a haircut. I can't be a dick to the barber just because they are servicing me.