Crying Orgasm?

nightengale1973's Avatar
Has anyone experienced being with a woman and when she orgasmed, she started shaking and crying and just grabbed you and hugged you while she cried? Is this normal? Did I do something wrong?
I have no idea how unusual this is, I only experienced one woman like this. I dated a woman for about five years that was multi orgasmic. After about a minute or two of penetration, she would orgasm every couple of minutes for as long as I could keep going. Suffering from delayed ejaculation, I could bring her to numerous orgasms. She would have tears streaming down her face almost every time. I asked her about it, it kind of upset me the first time, since I was her first shortly after her divorce. I thought she might be having emotional issues. She said she had been that way since her teens. She couldn't explain it, but the tears started flowing as soon as she started to orgasm. My guess is, you were doing a good job!
KatieKatie's Avatar
I used to know a girl like that. HOT MESS!
Don T. Lukbak's Avatar
Does queefing count?
tbone77494's Avatar
Never saw that but I did tear up just a little first time Alondra did tuma.
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  • 09-11-2013, 06:57 AM
It happens. It's kind of strange if you are not aware that the lady you are with has this tendency. I have a lady friend that has a body draining crying orgasm about 1 out of 3 times we get together. Another lady friend has 1 occassionally. They both claim that crying orgasms are their most intense orgasms.

I know they both need some recovery time after. Once you understand that they aren't crying because they are in pain or are emotionally hurt, but because they feel a connection and are enjoying themselves it is a bit of an ego boost.

...Is this normal? Did I do something wrong? Originally Posted by nightengale1973
Normal? Define normal. LOL

Wrong? Ask her about it. Based on my experience I would say no, you did nothing wrong, but your experience may be different than mine.
4karlos's Avatar
Yup. Had a couple of those. With one of them, there was a great connection she was extremely smart and well grounded emotionally...so go figure?! The other was a huge mess up on my behalf, started messing with an assistant, she got hooked...at some point she went gaga emotionally and she would burst in tears while orgasming. Lost a great assistant and learned to not fool around at the office, since then, 25 years ago, never did it again and I dodge any overly nice smile or look.
Slow Hand's Avatar
Never had one cry but had an ex that got her clit so sensitive when she came that she would start squirming and giggling up a storm. You forget DATY at that point.

Was a total complete hot mess.
Don T. Lukbak's Avatar
Am I the only one here who much prefers she queef rather than boo-hoo? It's so much more fun to watch a girl pussyfart propel herself across the bed during her nut than to have to put up with her damn tears. Hell, almost anything's better than that.
Heavyiron999's Avatar
haha, who can answer whats normal, just enjoy! Most likey she enjoyed it...
I Dated a girl that cried when the sex was extremely intense while having multiple orgasms... Been with a couple of girls who bodies totally shuttered during an intense orgasm though... Very different situations, IMO.
Did u lick her cheek to see if her tears taste like pussy juice?
Maybe she's piped up backwards?
Don T. Lukbak's Avatar
Did u lick her cheek to see if her tears taste like pussy juice?
Maybe she's piped up backwards? Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
That would be pretty tasty...provided they ain't bloody tears from vicarious menstruation.
Has anyone experienced being with a woman and when she orgasmed, she started shaking and crying and just grabbed you and hugged you while she cried? Is this normal? Did I do something wrong? Originally Posted by nightengale1973
Sounds like you did something right!
Girls usually cry when they wake up and see me laying next to them. I attribute it to my love making skills and not the beer goggle effect.

I think you must have done something right my friend.
That would be pretty tasty...provided they ain't bloody tears from vicarious menstruation. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak
Maybe Visine?

it gets the red out.