So I think I'll stick with Another Realm. For me, finding a regular (go to) strap on provider that I can build a rapport with (including intros to other forms of kink), has become my favorite pursuit. I've discovered that finding a real pro that takes delight in finding my limits is truly a challenge.
I'm not talking about the size, prep, lube or any of that logistics stuff. I got all that. I'm talking about the provider that understands what an absolute mind fuck one of these sessions can be and really gets off on it. One that understands making someone feel vulnerable and used does not require ropes and chains, but requires intelligence.
Oh great AR, help me find this person.
TIA