To fetish or not to fetish…

BlissfulTantra's Avatar
So, I received a message from a potential client and he asked if I specialize in any fetishes. I replied with no… he then proceeded to tell me his fetish was to have a latinas ass in his face and to lick her armpits. I’m sorry but I don’t offer that lol I mean… how could I do that?! I wouldn’t even know what to do in a session like that lol I’m still cracking up about it.
But, I ask… to fetish or not to fetish? Thoughts?
Fetishes are fun but I’d never bring mine up with a new provider. I’m pretty kinky so I like to know a lady and make sure we vibe before I broach the topic. Having a lady eagerly fulfill a fetish is an amazing experience. If they are not interested, I don’t push the subject. And I eagerly volunteer to fulfill provider fetishes as well but I’m usually the kinkier one
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But, I ask… to fetish or not to fetish? Thoughts? Originally Posted by BlissfulTantra
One mans fetish is another mans daily life. I don't personally think I have any fetishes... but then I'm willing to try almost anything twice as long as it doesn't involve poop, blood, or excessive pain.

The other side of that coin is the more fetishes you can cater to, the wider your customer base becomes. And for those niche fetishes, the $ goes up because people NEED their fetishes catered to.

It sounds like a good business policy to cater to those you are open to.
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Laughing at someone's fetish is akin to kink-shaming them and that's not cool. Unless their fetish is to be humiliated, then by all means, laugh at the naughty fucker.

In all seriousness, lots of folks have specific fetishes. The one you described is very specific and very vanilla.


Having positive outcomes and meets should always be discussed up front, likes/dislikes, esp from the ladies.
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Awe man… I didn’t mean to laugh at it like that. I’m just very new to all of this. I guess I’m very vanilla. I hope to learn more and be more open minded. I just don’t see myself partaking in sessions like that. Now I feel bad ��
Thanks for all your input!
Thats such a strange request. Oh and speaking of which, you should get a strap on in case anyone ever asks for that ...
I remember a couple of years ago in some Coed section in some city there was a provider whining that she didn't offer "fetishes". Her client asked to assume the "doggie" position and apparently she got all pissed off and threw him out because she didn't offer "fetishes".


I've come to the conclusion that real fetishes are not available in the US, unless you seek out providers that were born and started providing outside the US. I've had my best luck with German and Aussie ladies. They know what a "fetish" is!
I wish girls were more open to fetishes…it seems like it’s almost impossible to find a provider that will accommodate my needs.
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I wish girls were more open to fetishes…it seems like it’s almost impossible to find a provider that will accommodate my needs. Originally Posted by JimINDallas81
It's like rule 34. If you can think it, there's porn of it... 34a ought to be if you can pay for it, there will be a provider willing to do it with you.

Post it and you will surely get a DM from some provider...
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  • BLM69
  • 11-22-2022, 03:43 PM
Thats such a strange request. Oh and speaking of which, you should get a strap on in case anyone ever asks for that ... Originally Posted by cage196
Why are the fetishes always have to be the guy getting penetrated In one way or another? That seems to be a major request these days. SMH
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Why are the fetishes always have to be the guy getting penetrated In one way or another? That seems to be a major request these days. SMH Originally Posted by BLM69
It's how they want to "fight the patriarchy."
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  • BLM69
  • 11-23-2022, 10:58 AM
It's how they want to "fight the patriarchy." Originally Posted by bobbyb1234
We're gonna need a separate section for all these cock lovers soon, the straight cock lovers that is LMAO
Lexxi, I'm not really sure how (or why) anyone would want to keep their tongue - or anything else - out of your glorious ass! We all like different things, but that wouldn't even be a kink for me. Just fun and SEXY!!!
Why are the fetishes always have to be the guy getting penetrated In one way or another? That seems to be a major request these days. SMH Originally Posted by BLM69
try it you may like it.
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  • BLM69
  • 11-24-2022, 09:49 PM
try it you may like it. Originally Posted by cage196
I love pussy too much to want a dick inside of me......you in the other hand enjoys a good pumping from behind 😂