So, if you were a provider or are a provider how would you handle a threat of a bad review if you don't do something they want? As a provider you get at least 1 threat of this in your career at some point in time.
I had someone throw a babyfit because I declined being his ref on a site (I told him I never use) for a few reasons.
1. He said something rude to/about me which I confronted him about then I just let it roll off my back and was still pleasant to him and wished him a nice holiday.
2. He didn't respect my time and went way over while I was yawning and teary eyed talking about needing to go to bed and having to be up early again and again and again.
3. My flower is EXTREMELY sensitive, I have a hair trigger, I can have O after O easily if done firm but gently. I am far more sensitive there than most. Rough on my lil ___ is VERY painful. If I say "GENTLE" I mean it, he didn't think that mattered because he was having fun and I was still having Os. I had to say "GENTLE" like 4 times and was about to end the entire date at one point because I was beyond tender by then and annoyed that I wasn't being listened to. I literally closed my legs and said "Nope, I'm too tired and too sensitive." and just finished him because time was WAY up.
4. I wouldn't see him again unless he apologized, took back what he said, and swore to be more gentle with my flower and respectful of my time. PLUS it would be a cold day in hell before I saw him at a special rate again.
Should I take off the gloves and cuss him out making a bigger deal out of it like him?
Should I call him out then block him and ignore everything he says and does?
Should I Wait and see if it is an idol threat like they usually are?