A threat? How do YOU think it should be handled?

So, if you were a provider or are a provider how would you handle a threat of a bad review if you don't do something they want? As a provider you get at least 1 threat of this in your career at some point in time.
I had someone throw a babyfit because I declined being his ref on a site (I told him I never use) for a few reasons.
1. He said something rude to/about me which I confronted him about then I just let it roll off my back and was still pleasant to him and wished him a nice holiday.
2. He didn't respect my time and went way over while I was yawning and teary eyed talking about needing to go to bed and having to be up early again and again and again.
3. My flower is EXTREMELY sensitive, I have a hair trigger, I can have O after O easily if done firm but gently. I am far more sensitive there than most. Rough on my lil ___ is VERY painful. If I say "GENTLE" I mean it, he didn't think that mattered because he was having fun and I was still having Os. I had to say "GENTLE" like 4 times and was about to end the entire date at one point because I was beyond tender by then and annoyed that I wasn't being listened to. I literally closed my legs and said "Nope, I'm too tired and too sensitive." and just finished him because time was WAY up.
4. I wouldn't see him again unless he apologized, took back what he said, and swore to be more gentle with my flower and respectful of my time. PLUS it would be a cold day in hell before I saw him at a special rate again.
Should I take off the gloves and cuss him out making a bigger deal out of it like him?
Should I call him out then block him and ignore everything he says and does?
Should I Wait and see if it is an idol threat like they usually are?

id say..let him write the review..you can post a thread in the co-ed and give testament to what actually happened..besides..you have so many great reviews..1 bad review is not gonna break you..

guys have done this to me in the past...big deal...write your review..the guys that know me will know the deal...
besides at this point in time..a threat to me is rg&e telling me they gonna shut off my electric..
someone saying they are gonna write a bad review about me is honestly like comedy hour for me now..i just laugh at it...

also..if he apologized to you or not..do you really think he's gonna change his colors..mark him and move on..there are other great guys out there that will take his place..
hope it works out for ya..nita..

I be on lots of sites errr well only 3. This one, one that is well almost dead. Then one that I use to contact lady's no longer on here and is dead other than Texas. Is this site the used one for where you both met???? not that it matters. Could this person have used another guys handle??? I use two handles yet both end up as OSD. A few times trying to met a gal, some have tried using one of them. hehehe once a guy tried offshoredilling when I was with her she knowing both OSD handles I use.

I say let him review. But then I do like the drama.

and the offshoredrilling on the wikkileak is not me(I'm not on that site under any handle). Most are not who they say they are on that site.

edit: dang and if I was to try that, My handle would be the last I would try. I would use errrr never mind. Why help snakes

3. My flower is EXTREMELY sensitive, I have a hair trigger, I can have O after O easily if done firm but gently. I am far more sensitive there than most.

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

You've mentioned this many times, but go on...

I'd say let him write his review and put him on your DNS list. I'm sure the people who KNOW what the deal is will see through the smoke...and calling him out on it just stirs the pot on it that much more.
He writes his review...you have like 30 good reviews here...if people are smart they will see what is going on. I remember back in the escorts.com days when you would see a girl with 20 good reviews and 1 bad one...then research the OTHER reviews from the member who gave her a bad review...LOW AND BEHOLD ...all his reviews are screwy. We will see him for the screwball that he is...and you should sleep just fine.

Let your conscience be your guide and don't play into the bullshit....don't feed the trolls!!!

Peace
PK

I'm generally the type who doesn't respond well to threats and ultimatums.

So what if he writes a bad review... will it really hurt your business? It's more likely to hurt his reputation with other providers.

You have just given a clinic on how to handle it. You already have the upper hand with your preemptive thread.

I wouldn't worry about one bad review when the rest of them are good. Most of us wouldn't take it seriously. I know I wouldn't.

I live by a saying in these cases.
Feed it, it lives; starve it, it dies.
I would NOT put the gloves on, I would leave it alone. Eventually, it will fade away.

Lexxxy,


Not much to think about here. It seems to me that if I were you, I would just never see the guy again.


elg.......

Post his cock shot...show em who's boss babe

Let him post the negative review.

Without those guys, us white-knights would be out of business.

us white-knights would be out of business. Originally Posted by Doove

I may challenge you to a duel, for being a rascal !

Its a no win situation when responding to a negative review. The preemptive strike is just daring the fucktard to post a review. Its better to post taint.

Its a no win situation when responding to a negative review. The preemptive thrAD is just daring the fucktard to post a review. Its better to post taint. Originally Posted by pyramider

fixed it...

who the hell knows if this guy even exists?