With all the talk of strap-ons and prostates and toy play, I got to thinkin' -- I haven't provided very often in the past several years, so most of my current skills are things I use frequently in my personal life (is cuddling a skill?). That being said, I'm moving back into town, looking to provide on a more frequent basis for awhile, and I might need to learn more tricks to keep this trick fresh.
So! Providers! What skills are you most confident in and what skills would you like to perfect or acquire? What skills do you wish the gents would learn? Would you mentor another provider in a certain area, or is that just feeding the competition? Gents! What do you wish you could learn from a professional in order to amp up your performance? Which tricks do you loooooove when a girl pulls it out unexpectedly?
Me, I need to learn more about butts, nutts, rubs, and topping. When I was younger I'd offer to do sessions when I was OK at a certain activity, but now I'm more likely to send them to a girl who I know is fantastic at it. Giving my C game at one activity is just a waste of y'all's time even if you think I'm cute, you know? Anywho, I like wearing strap-ons, getting a beej on my piece is one hell of a power trip, but I'm still a little awkward in them beyond that. I'd love to spend a few sessions watching a girl do proper p-play so I could add it to my list. The thrust thing I can probably practice on my own =) I'd also like to watch the flow of an FBSM session. I am a touchy girl and wind up giving rubs and cuddles in most of my GFE sessions, but it'd be nice to learn how to do it properly.
On what I wish men would learn (not necessarily clients, but all men I wind up BCD with). Spanking and fingering. Someone hold a damn spanking workshop, please. It's an art, a beautiful art, and not enough people know what they're doing. As far as fingering goes...I think too many people focus on perfecting DATY and not enough focus on finger spelunking. Yum.