so what do you do

I have a question and maybe I can get some info on what I should do.

So what should I do about having a hobbiest that I saw once and he has become super obsessed and is trying to ruin things for me in my outside eccie world and is looking my name up and the people around me. Hes getting out of control and its getting crazy, what should I do, please help me
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  • ztonk
  • 01-18-2013, 05:08 PM
Contacting the lady by PM.

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is there anyway that this post can just be deleted then please
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I'm not staff but here's my suggestion. It works for all ladies and gents. Screen your client thoroughly. A little research would have told you how obsessive and clingy poet is. There have been many threads and posts from ladies about him.

#2. Stop living with him and or his roommate or doing in calls there. Again, if you give him an inch (or any sad pathetic clingy guy or gal) this is what you end up with.

Cut all ties and tell him to leave you alone, then you can go add your story to the other lady threads about him.
natasteewsym - seriously?? omg...run, girl, run!

pm sent Shayla...

Aphrodite
Listen I knew the girl as you say before I knew poet, she worked at a company that I hired her at before I started providing as I was HR there. I was living with another provider that was nutty and uncontrollable which looks like the new girl she had move in was a disaster too, so MY friend since I have been here asked me to come stay with her and by chance he was a roommate there too. I have settled our situation I dont room with him and he and I dont even hold conversations together as I have my own life and all and dont really pay him any attention. Didnt know we were all in highschool and rumors and all getting spread but I am to old to care about what others think and my situation now is way better then who I was living with before so please gals and gents give me a break unless you all can help me out with a place then I dont think anyone should have a right to say anything, I am doing what I can for the time being. Thanks for the concerns and there appreciated
Posting a wanna be alert is the epitome of high school immaturity . Perhaps take a deep breath and try to work it out next time before publicly posting something that sounds like such a desperate situation . IJS ! Once you press submit you CAN'T take it back ! You could have privately PMed a mod to ask that question , avoiding all comments you don't wish to hear .
Your very right rockerrick I should of and people have to sleep in the bed they make, I just want to make sure people know that I dont like drama and this was not open for the public discussion and there views, I dont know why I put it there
We all have post we should have not posted , live and learn .
For sure, thanks sweets
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Listen I knew the girl as you say before I knew poet, she worked at a company that I hired her at before I started providing as I was HR there. I was living with another provider that was nutty and uncontrollable which looks like the new girl she had move in was a disaster too, so MY friend since I have been here asked me to come stay with her and by chance he was a roommate there too. I have settled our situation I dont room with him and he and I dont even hold conversations together as I have my own life and all and dont really pay him any attention. Didnt know we were all in highschool and rumors and all getting spread but I am to old to care about what others think and my situation now is way better then who I was living with before so please gals and gents give me a break unless you all can help me out with a place then I dont think anyone should have a right to say anything, I am doing what I can for the time being. Thanks for the concerns and there appreciated Originally Posted by shayla84
Glad you have been able to work it out. Don't take what I said as a slight in anyway on You. It was mostly about what I have read about poet and the games he plays and the obsessions he makes. If its an in call you need or a room I can always work out a quid pro quo with a lovely lady such as yourself
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@shayla84 : Glad you are working things out !!!
@mysweetsatan:
there is a saying .... out of the frying pan, into the fire
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Me too only thing is I hear them too lol jk
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