How do I get verified for the ladies?

Hi all,

I'm wondering how to get verified for escort services? I'm hesitant to provide a bunch of personal information to a site. Especially when I have no idea what they'll do with that information and it will always be on record here in the digital age. Tips and information appreciated!
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I recommend you register with P411. You will have to provide the information they require, and they will verify it. However, they are discrete, and I believe Gina and her P411 crew are trustworthy--there are a lot of hobbyists using her service.

Then see a "newbie friendly" P411 provider. Get a provider okay, and you are on your way. P411 is big in Texas, so I think it is the best of the screening services for you.

Have fun!
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  • iggy
  • 06-08-2010, 09:32 PM
Search the Showcases for providers that say they are newbie friendly and have reviews. You will have to search the showcases in your area, it will be take more than one to get a good record of being a legit client.
Thank you for taking the time to respond! I guess I won't get to enjoy this hobby as there's no way I'm giving out employment information (city, address, main number, direct office ext., website).

While I appreciate that escorts need to feel safe and secure, I'm afraid this information is too intrusive for me. Especially in an economy with U3 unemployment at 10% and U6 about 18%.
Thanks IGGY!
You can join p411 if you feel uneasy about a provider having your info , They r a out of country service who check your work info it is deleted after your approved + get a ID which most girls accept as full screening .
Use preferred411.com. It is the best, there has never been a better hobby tool. Gina runs a first rate website that is there as a tool for all of us. It has the most integrity of any website I have seen in the hobby world. Once you are in on p411 your hobby life will be so much easier. It is not only that but the ladies on p411 are high class. It is kind of funny as people on the outside world just do not understand the hobby world. I have met so many classy women who I have the highest respect for as they are really cool people. You become a member of the community, like using eccie and preferred411 and you build relationships and friendships. Once you get established, by having to give some info just at the beginning, it will pay for itself for years to come and you will be glad you did it. I know I am
I just love when people think that they're too important for P411. So many people use it, it's out of the country, plenty of high profile gentlemen have given up their information in order to play in this game. You claim you want to be screened and then say that you think screening is too intrusive. I'm really not trying to come across as argumentative, but I honestly get confused with people who tell me that want to be screened and then refuse to give me any personal information. If you don't actually want to be screened, then don't ask to be Thanks
I just love when people think that they're too important for P411. So many people use it, it's out of the country, plenty of high profile gentlemen have given up their information in order to play in this game. You claim you want to be screened and then say that you think screening is too intrusive. I'm really not trying to come across as argumentative, but I honestly get confused with people who tell me that want to be screened and then refuse to give me any personal information. If you don't actually want to be screened, then don't ask to be Thanks Originally Posted by Blond_Lily
Lily,

You make several valid points. I didn't mean to come across as "too important". I'm sure that most men here have much more to lose than me. Please understand that I'm new to the hobby and am just being cautious. I'm a very private person and keep my personal life separate from my professional life. Please forgive me if I'm reluctant to provide detailed business information to some website.

After consideration, I think I will join p411 as it would make everything much easier. I'm curious how they verify employment information and what questions they ask. I might have an associate within earshot when they call my direct line. What do they ask when they call the main line? Again, I'm not trying to act "all important", I'm just being prudent. I don't like mixing business with pleasure.

Thanks, E.
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Lily,

You make several valid points. I didn't mean to come across as "too important". I'm sure that most men here have much more to lose than me. Please understand that I'm new to the hobby and am just being cautious. I'm a very private person and keep my personal life separate from my professional life. Please forgive me if I'm reluctant to provide detailed business information to some website.

After consideration, I think I will join p411 as it would make everything much easier. I'm curious how they verify employment information and what questions they ask. I might have an associate within earshot when they call my direct line. What do they ask when they call the main line? Again, I'm not trying to act "all important", I'm just being prudent. I don't like mixing business with pleasure.

Thanks, E. Originally Posted by Eccie42
Hello and welcome Eccie42. Please direct those concerns and questions you have directly to Gina at P411. Like everyone here has stated, she is as trustworthy, honest, discreet and professional about how she runs that site. There are some important people registered ONLY with her site because it is THE BEST for a reason. No one can beat that reputation. So any questions you have about how verification works would best be answered by the P411 managment team. When looking for a most reliable answer you must find the source.

Again, welcome and wishing you a great and safe hobby experience!



KKA
Thanks Kelli - I IMed them via their website and got answers to my questions. I also signed up and should be verified soon. Thanks again for everyone's time and patience.
P411 screening was very painless and discreet. They called my place of work to verify that I actually worked there and then chatted with me for a bit. It is so easy for providers to view your profile and see your okays and believe me, you send an appointment request and they will normally check you out pretty quick and decide if they are interested in making a date. I rarely see a provider who is not displaying on P411 too. It's well worth the annual membership, in my humble but accurate opinion. I like that about P411, that you can actually see what providers have accessed your account to check you out. Great feature.
  • rojo
  • 06-16-2010, 08:51 PM
What's a showcase?
if you really don't want to provide work info to p411, you can get verified with provider references. It's really not a chicken or egg thing - there are plenty of ladies if you look hard enough that will see you without any references (backpage, "newbie friendly," whatever). imo, they aren't the same quality as the more careful ladies - but it can eventually get you verified. (some ladies will take references from them, eventually you'll see 2 ladies that are on p411 and you can go from there).

Thats what I did (only because I was stubborn and took awhile before I joined p411). It would be much much easier to just give them the work info - they are very discreet.
If Gina is wrapped up I reccommend Lori @ P411.. she is AWESOME. her email is Lori@preferred411.com. She usually gets back to me pretty quickly =)