Hobbyists say they sometimes feel these emotions over providers. A couple of points. As Iago tells Othello, "envy is a green eyed monster that doth mock the flesh it feeds on."
So if the ATF gets more powerful orgams etc from anothe guy who is better looking and better endowed, well just suck it up. Never compare yourself to others. As the golfer Tom Watson remarked, "whem I am on the course, it is just me vs.the course." Finally, a woman should enjoy her sexuality. To become upset over this diminishes her as well as yourself.