Due to Recent Events

So due to recent events I have decided that I will no longer be running overtime for clients unless they pay for it in advance. I have never been the clock watching type nor am I mean in any way. However this is my career, the way I support myself and my family (providers do have families as well you know). My time cost money. I would not ask nor expect you or anyone else to come work at my home for free or for less than you deserve. Therefore you should not expect me to work for less than I deserve.

One could probably say this is my fault. I guess I have finally become a little to comfortable as a provider in this hobby giving the fact that this has never happened to me before. Being the person I am, I did not get mad and am not mad now. But I will not allow my kindness to be taken for weakness again, nor will I be taken advantage of. If you wanna play in this hobby you have to pay the hooker. If you can't afford the sluts rates, save your money until you can or choose a less expensive hoe. This is really quite simple.

I can not tell you how many times I have read things about providers being clock watchers. Gentlemen things like this are the reason why a lady working by the hour watches the clock, and yet we are the ones that get bad reps for doing so. If you want an honest provider be an honest hobbyist and make sure you pay the hooker for her time or at least give her a decent tip for unexpected overtime.

Xo Xo
TK

well said!!!!

Completely agree with you, TK. Clockwatching really isn't my thing, and I've been taken advantage of more times than I care to admit. This post was an excellent idea. I can only imagine how many unscrupulous hobbyist were fully prepared to take advantage of the "buy one, get one special" that you aren't offering.

Trinity you are a class act and consummate provider. I respect anyone for supporting their family while handling their business affairs. Perhaps I will have the pleasure of tasting your sugar Kane in the near future. Xxoo muah smooches etc

TK, I don't think you sound like a clock watcher. It should be the clients responsibility to be mindful of the time. It is also the provider's responsibility to make sure that time does not get abused. If time was going to go over, compensation should have been given.

I cannot understand why the reviewer decided to publicly disclose this part of the session. This should have remained quiet between the client and TK.

Now come see me, your time will absolutely be compensated.

Completely agree with you, TK. Clockwatching really isn't my thing, and I've been taken advantage of more times than I care to admit. This post was an excellent idea. I can only imagine how many unscrupulous hobbyist were fully prepared to take advantage of the "buy one, get one special" that you aren't offering. Originally Posted by Sexy_Brittany

Exactly my point Britt. I was NOT then and am NOT now running a 2 for one special. It's really just common courtesy to give a decent tip in circumstances like these if you can't afford the full rate for the time and overtime that was provided. Most of us girls are so easy to get along with and have worked many regular jobs before becoming providers. We all understand what paying bills and taking care of your family is like. But taking advantage of this situation knowing that you did not have the proper compensation for the time spent was wrong. I carry my own fault in this matter giving the fact that communication is key is most circumstances.

Trinity you are a class act and consummate provider. I respect anyone for supporting their family while handling their business affairs. Perhaps I will have the pleasure of tasting your sugar Kane in the near future. Xxoo muah smooches etc Originally Posted by traypear

Thank you Traypear. I am looking forward to meeting with you one day... (To Do List!!)

TK, I don't think you sound like a clock watcher. It should be the clients responsibility to be mindful of the time. It is also the provider's responsibility to make sure that time does not get abused. If time was going to go over, compensation should have been given.

I cannot understand why the reviewer decided to publicly disclose this part of the session. This should have remained quiet between the client and TK.

Now come see me, your time will absolutely be compensated. Originally Posted by ragooh_aus

Yes you are right and I carry my share of fault in this matter as I stated earlier about becoming to comfortable in the hobby. I love what I do and it shows in my actions.

However this was brought out into a coed thread when it should have been left in private as you stated above. Which is also the reason behind this particular thread.

(PM me and we can discuss it.. )

I been saving for a week, hopefully I'll have enough in a week or so these grill cheese and chicken noodle soup is getting old.

I been saving for a week, hopefully I'll have enough in a week or so these grill cheese and chicken noodle soup is getting old. Originally Posted by Worldtravler

I like soup and grilled cheese. lol what a way to sacrifice for your Hobby.

Could your recent review have anything to do with this post?

If the client can not afford to go beyond the time he paid for ,then he should have said so and a new agreement made.

I tend to pay more attention to the clock than the provider, because my time is important. So when they break out the phone and text or talk non stop ..... well sometimes the client should be paid.
Perhaps we should start a forum for tight ass Johns who are pure oppurtunist? Would rival the NCNS forum


Btw, good post!

Hail!!

Could your recent review have anything to do with this post?

If the client can not afford to go beyond the time he paid for ,then he should have said so and a new agreement made.

I tend to pay more attention to the clock than the provider, because my time is important. So when they break out the phone and text or talk non stop ..... well sometimes the client should be paid.
Perhaps we should start a forum for tight ass Johns who are pure oppurtunist? Would rival the NCNS forum


Btw, good post!

Hail!! Originally Posted by Das Ficker

not sure what the review says past the recommendation but this thread is more along the lines of what I was talking about.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=860328

I just feel that the information given here along with the extremely foul content in which it was typed should have been kept more private. I do not speak on these forums the way I may or may not speak to a client in my private area due to the amount of discretion this career calls for. I thank you for your input in this matter and hope you have a wonderful day. Happy Hobbying

Xo Xo
TK

I been saving for a week, hopefully I'll have enough in a week or so these grill cheese and chicken noodle soup is getting old. Originally Posted by Worldtravler

Ramen will make your wait go by that much faster... Ijs!

Just teasing.

Btw, excellent post, Trinity! Thanks for having the fortitude to make a stance on an issue that I'm sure must continually affect most providers.

Oops...double post. Tried to edit & ended up with a doppelgänger.

Ramen will make your wait go by that much faster... Ijs!

Just teasing.

Btw, excellent post, Trinity! Thanks for having the fortitude to make a stance on an issue that I'm sure must continually affect most providers. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Thanks Ginger.

I can not imagine how many times this has happened to others and nothing has been said about it. The worst part is when it causes a good provider to end up with a bad rep or review for rushing and clock watching during a session. It's wrong and time for someone to bring it to the forums attention. At least now both providers and hobbyist alike can possibly find some common ground and understanding in situations like these. Bad reviews can hurt a ladies business just like bad sessions can hurt the hobbyist when trying to see another lady. Simple facts that needed to be address.

By the way I sent you a pm. have you had time to check it??

...By the way I sent you a pm. have you had time to check it?? Originally Posted by Trinity Kane

Yes! I think so, unless there's been another PM since? I called you to discuss it. Just to let you know it was really me...lol.

Yes! I think so, unless there's been another PM since? I called you to discuss it. Just to let you know it was really me...lol. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I was on the phone and had no idea that was you lol