.....doing this "thing" we do that could very easily ruin a future relationship you may start?
We got into a discussion here about how the hobby may have helped us. I want some opinions on how it may hurt you.
What I mean is this.... I've never been married and during the relationships I have had I never saw anyone else outside or in the hobby. What I've always been afraid of is what if I meet that perfect woman for me and because of all the different ladies I've seen and experiences I've had and the perfect fantasy woman I have created in my mind she can't possibly live up to that.
Each time we hobbyists/provider alike meet all these different people and share a part of ourselves in a way that is generally reserved for a relationship we give a part of ourselves away. For the most part these wonderful ladies give us exactly what we want, tell us exactly what we want to hear. How can my future wife compete with that?
Am I thinking too much... lol