Defining sensual domination

Ok. I see ads for sensual domination all the time. Any thoughts on what specific activities that might entail?

My website is geared for that.

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Typically the "sensual" domination is more geared towards touching/fondling/light impact/kissing play. Depending on how you want to define the rest of it (i.e. "true", "hardcore", etc) it will typically involve more mental as well as physical and impact play.

So a sensual dominatrix might tie you to the bed, and rub herself all over you while you strain to get more contact with her, or tease you with her breasts as you are desperate to take her nipples in your mouth. And then she may venture further south to tease you further.

Otherwise you might find yourself tied down on something less comfortable, say a spanking bench or a st. andrews cross, and your Mistress is flogging you, or hand spanking you, or taking her riding crop to your ass.

Of course, the truly evil domme will start off sensual, then go harder on you, and at the end she doesn't let you release and puts you in a nice steel chastity belt and lets you know her appointment schedule for the next week...

Myself, I overindulge my lover and myself when I sensually dominate him. It’s intensely personal to dominate someone.

My newest lover rang the doorbell. A wide, wicked grin spread across his face when he saw me in my aqua green, skin-tight latex dress. I grabbed him by the hand, told him to be a good boy and gave him a deep, long French kiss.

I took him in my candle lit bedroom and told him to kneel before me while I showed him the toys I was going to use and abuse him with. I told him to kiss them one by one. First the red flogger, the butt-plug, the nipple clamps, the candle, the clothespins, the paddles, his collar……………….

I slowly unzipped the top of my dress and allowed him to feel, smell and lick my awaiting, sensitive nipples. I told him if he obeyed me, I would reward him. I’m not a severe mistress after all.

I put his collar on him and smiled down at him. When I restrained him face down on the bed, I put his vulnerable bottom in the air with a pillow underneath him, and slipped his butt plug in. I took my oil out and with my hands, breasts and pussy I began massaging the oil into his back, shoulders, legs and backside.

Without notice I grabbed my flogger and flap, flap, flap across his waiting bottom until he moaned with pleasure. Not too much……………slowly, I began flogging his back and dragging the tendrils of the flogger down his back, bottom, legs and feet – slap to the bottom of one of his feet as a reminder. Again, again, again.

Slap, slap, slap strong stinging slaps with my hand on his getting red bottom. I ask him, “Does that sting?”

He responds whimpering, “Yes Mistress.”

“Do you want me to stop?” I ask.

“No Mistress I don’t.” He responds.

A few more swats and then I drag my long, blond hair down his back; kiss his red bottom; put a vibrator on his plug; and clamp him just below his plug.

“Ohhh Mistress.” He whispers almost to himself…………………….

I turn him over, re-secure him and lick and then put my nipple clams on his waiting nipples. He strains and bucks as I alternate between ice, pulling on his clamp’s chain and giving him deep kisses. When his nipples have been tormented enough, I suck each nipple as I take the clamps off. I love to hear him whimper.

The whimper becomes louder as I begin flogging his sensitive nipples and chest. Ever so slowly, so slowly, I drag the flogger down his stomach, cock, balls legs and feet. Without him expecting it, I begin to oh so softly flog his fully erect cock.

“Does that hurt?” I ask

“Yes Mistress, but I need it.” He responds.

I reach over and put clamp the shaft of his cock, and then I begin to massage his chest and stomach while he’s helplessly tied down and has his cock clamped. I rub alternate between rubbing my breasts and pussy across his chest and dragging my hair across his chest, stomach and cock.

I finally decide to take my pleasure. I lower myself onto his eager tongue. When I finally come all over his face, I lower my mouth to his and kiss myself off of his face.

Now it’s time to pay attention to my good little boy. I take out my lube and begin to massage his balls. Slowly, I take one cloths pin off at a time, licking and……………………..

This is my idea of sensual domination.

If that is the quintessential definition then I am in! Olivia , please, come north next time!

Oh damn. Count me in too. I want/need to be that lover.

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Oh Olivia, that is hot. I really need to create a time when we can play together

Dang Oliva count me in tooooo - I just love both sides of that play from time to time!

Myself, I overindulge my lover and myself when I sensually dominate him. It’s intensely personal to dominate someone.

My newest lover rang the doorbell. A wide, wicked grin spread across his face when he saw me in my aqua green, skin-tight latex dress. I grabbed him by the hand, told him to be a good boy and gave him a deep, long French kiss.

I took him in my candle lit bedroom and told him to kneel before me while I showed him the toys I was going to use and abuse him with. I told him to kiss them one by one. First the red flogger, the butt-plug, the nipple clamps, the candle, the clothespins, the paddles, his collar……………….

I slowly unzipped the top of my dress and allowed him to feel, smell and lick my awaiting, sensitive nipples. I told him if he obeyed me, I would reward him. I’m not a severe mistress after all.

I put his collar on him and smiled down at him. When I restrained him face down on the bed, I put his vulnerable bottom in the air with a pillow underneath him, and slipped his butt plug in. I took my oil out and with my hands, breasts and pussy I began massaging the oil into his back, shoulders, legs and backside.

Without notice I grabbed my flogger and flap, flap, flap across his waiting bottom until he moaned with pleasure. Not too much……………slowly, I began flogging his back and dragging the tendrils of the flogger down his back, bottom, legs and feet – slap to the bottom of one of his feet as a reminder. Again, again, again.

Slap, slap, slap strong stinging slaps with my hand on his getting red bottom. I ask him, “Does that sting?”

He responds whimpering, “Yes Mistress.”

“Do you want me to stop?” I ask.

“No Mistress I don’t.” He responds.

A few more swats and then I drag my long, blond hair down his back; kiss his red bottom; put a vibrator on his plug; and clamp him just below his plug.

“Ohhh Mistress.” He whispers almost to himself…………………….

I turn him over, re-secure him and lick and then put my nipple clams on his waiting nipples. He strains and bucks as I alternate between ice, pulling on his clamp’s chain and giving him deep kisses. When his nipples have been tormented enough, I suck each nipple as I take the clamps off. I love to hear him whimper.

The whimper becomes louder as I begin flogging his sensitive nipples and chest. Ever so slowly, so slowly, I drag the flogger down his stomach, cock, balls legs and feet. Without him expecting it, I begin to oh so softly flog his fully erect cock.

“Does that hurt?” I ask

“Yes Mistress, but I need it.” He responds.

I reach over and put clamp the shaft of his cock, and then I begin to massage his chest and stomach while he’s helplessly tied down and has his cock clamped. I rub alternate between rubbing my breasts and pussy across his chest and dragging my hair across his chest, stomach and cock.

I finally decide to take my pleasure. I lower myself onto his eager tongue. When I finally come all over his face, I lower my mouth to his and kiss myself off of his face.

Now it’s time to pay attention to my good little boy. I take out my lube and begin to massage his balls. Slowly, I take one cloths pin off at a time, licking and……………………..

This is my idea of sensual domination. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Damn! I need a cigarette. And I don't smoke.

Myself, I overindulge my lover and myself when I sensually dominate him. It’s intensely personal to dominate someone.

...........Brevity edit....

This is my idea of sensual domination. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

That was HOT! My idea of it too.... but for me, flipped in the other direction.

Smoke time That made me all tingly inside. In my opinion, sensual domination is a lighter form of play maybe using feathers, fingernails/hair down trailing down the back. Maybe the use of silk scarves instead of something more menacing. Can't forget lots of tease and denial. My last session was not really sensual all the way thru, but here is the story.... A fine young male creature was at the door. Introductions and then I quickly took my place on the big chair wearing my favorite black pencil skirt, waist cincher, and white blouse. My hair was in a bun and I wore my reading glasses. Sub dave quickly knelt before me eyeing my legs thru the long side slit. I'm sure he noticed my black vinyl stilettos, because he sported a lusty grin! I told him to take his clothes off, because it was time for his inspection. He knelt again as I walked around him touching his cock with my heels and crop lightly swating the places I wanted to examine further. I placed handcuffs on him as I distracted him with my breath in his ear and on his neck. Once cuffed I placed a hood and collar on him. I led him over to my bench where he placed his body over the leather. I stroked his skinsoftly and drug my nails over his body lightly. I let him smell the flogger and feel it against his skin. I gave him a few loving pats on his ass and he began to groan a little. I said you are ready to receive what I have to give you aren't you? Yes Mistress I'm ready. I began to flog him on his back, butt, and upper thighs until I felt we were both ready to move on. I led him to another room where I placed leather restraints on his wrists. He was very content.his arms hung above his head attached to the bar above while I licked his nipples and rubbed myself against him. I placed his balls in a little pouch that had teeth in them like vampire gloves do. After that I rewarded him by stroking his cock very slowly getting it all lubed up. I circled around him quietly for effect giving a tug to a nipple and a swat here and there. I sucked on one nipple and played with him a little to distract him while I placed the clamp on the other side. Still stroking I placed the other. All the while I teased and taunted him. I saw his wrists was getting a little red, so I took him down and layed him on the massage table and bound him. I lifted the hood up enough to expose his nose and mouth. Placing my thin panty encased pussy just inches from his mouth every now and then brushing my lips against his. I decided it was time for his training and told him so still teasing him with my pussy. He begged to see, and I thought he took everything like a champ, so I took the hood off. With a plug throbbing in him and my pussy inches from his mouth I tied his cock up quickly and removed the sack from his balls. I left him there a minute and retreived my hot wax, ice, and another devilish surprise. I dripped hot wax down his chest while I pulled the clamps off softly. I asked him if there was anything mistresscould do to make him feel better. He replied that he didn't know. Whatever mistresswanted. So, I placed some icy hot on his balls to make him feel "better" and quickly pulled the string from his cock.I allowed him one free hand to use ice on his nipples.

It was a good time to go to the next size up in plugs, so that is what I did. As I sat on top of him I laughed at his helplessness and his throbbing balls. I swabbed a little more icyhot on his nipples and ordered him to touch himself. I gave him nothing but spit for lube while I sat on top of his chest and pleasured myself. I made him beg for release then made a little game out of his starting and stopping masterbating. I finally came and so did he. He called today as I asked of him. He asked when could he see me again!!!

I think Olivia nailed it... Wow....

Myself, I overindulge my lover and myself when I sensually dominate him. It’s intensely personal to dominate someone.

My newest lover rang the doorbell. A wide, wicked grin spread across his face when he saw me in my aqua green, skin-tight latex dress. I grabbed him by the hand, told him to be a good boy and gave him a deep, long French kiss.

I took him in my candle lit bedroom and told him to kneel before me while I showed him the toys I was going to use and abuse him with. I told him to kiss them one by one. First the red flogger, the butt-plug, the nipple clamps, the candle, the clothespins, the paddles, his collar……………….

I slowly unzipped the top of my dress and allowed him to feel, smell and lick my awaiting, sensitive nipples. I told him if he obeyed me, I would reward him. I’m not a severe mistress after all.

I put his collar on him and smiled down at him. When I restrained him face down on the bed, I put his vulnerable bottom in the air with a pillow underneath him, and slipped his butt plug in. I took my oil out and with my hands, breasts and pussy I began massaging the oil into his back, shoulders, legs and backside.

Without notice I grabbed my flogger and flap, flap, flap across his waiting bottom until he moaned with pleasure. Not too much……………slowly, I began flogging his back and dragging the tendrils of the flogger down his back, bottom, legs and feet – slap to the bottom of one of his feet as a reminder. Again, again, again.

Slap, slap, slap strong stinging slaps with my hand on his getting red bottom. I ask him, “Does that sting?”

He responds whimpering, “Yes Mistress.”

“Do you want me to stop?” I ask.

“No Mistress I don’t.” He responds.

A few more swats and then I drag my long, blond hair down his back; kiss his red bottom; put a vibrator on his plug; and clamp him just below his plug.

“Ohhh Mistress.” He whispers almost to himself…………………….

I turn him over, re-secure him and lick and then put my nipple clams on his waiting nipples. He strains and bucks as I alternate between ice, pulling on his clamp’s chain and giving him deep kisses. When his nipples have been tormented enough, I suck each nipple as I take the clamps off. I love to hear him whimper.

The whimper becomes louder as I begin flogging his sensitive nipples and chest. Ever so slowly, so slowly, I drag the flogger down his stomach, cock, balls legs and feet. Without him expecting it, I begin to oh so softly flog his fully erect cock.

“Does that hurt?” I ask

“Yes Mistress, but I need it.” He responds.

I reach over and put clamp the shaft of his cock, and then I begin to massage his chest and stomach while he’s helplessly tied down and has his cock clamped. I rub alternate between rubbing my breasts and pussy across his chest and dragging my hair across his chest, stomach and cock.

I finally decide to take my pleasure. I lower myself onto his eager tongue. When I finally come all over his face, I lower my mouth to his and kiss myself off of his face.

Now it’s time to pay attention to my good little boy. I take out my lube and begin to massage his balls. Slowly, I take one cloths pin off at a time, licking and……………………..

This is my idea of sensual domination. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Myself, I overindulge my lover and myself when I sensually dominate him. It’s intensely personal to dominate someone.

My newest lover rang the doorbell.

...exciting sensual play deliciously described by Olivia - snipped by me ...

A few more swats and then I drag my long, blond hair down his back; kiss his red bottom; put a vibrator on his plug; and clamp him just below his plug.

...exciting sensual play deliciously described by Olivia - snipped by me ...

I reach over and put clamp the shaft of his cock, and

...exciting sensual play deliciously described by Olivia - snipped by me ...

This is my idea of sensual domination. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

like i said in my snippings, Olivia, that is a delicious description of a sensual domination event!!!
but, being the inquisitive one,....
what kind of clamps "below his plug" and on "the shaft of his cock"?

my imagery fails me...

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