Actually, the title of this thread was inspired by this topic on eccie and it spurred me to ask a few questions about tantra.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=93571
I did copy the title.
I would like to know more about tantra. I will fully admit when I heard of a lingham massage several years back, I just thought of it as an elongated hand job and they used to get on my nerves.
Then, I had chance to meet with a man who has studied tantra sex and I almost fell in love with him. Saw him twice when he was in town and I've never experienced anything like it. Well, not really. It was very deliberate and very erotic.
So this might be a good topic. Not everything has to be about ropes and chains in this realm!!!
Elisabeth