midgetwrestler

I have never done this before. But right now I am so upset that I can't think straight. So mods if this is in the wrong place feel free to move it.

Let me start by saying I am not into drama. Never have been. Hate drama. But this has be seeing crosseyed. So if you want to dog pile or flame me that is fine. But no matter what justification you use, there is no excuse for this kind of unprofessional behavior. I pride myself on being professional and expect the same in ruturn.

This hobbist, who I've seen before, contacted me on Sunday. He had contacted me 2 weeks ago wanting to do a 3some. He gave me a list of providers he would want to do this with. I contacted one of them and set the apt. But at the last minute work came up for him and he cancled. This I understand.


But Sunday....he wanted to reschedule since I was back in town. So I started making the arrangements. Then he came back and wanted to add a 3rd provider. That was fine with me. Made the arrangements. In the last two days I have recieved over 9 PM's from him detailing the activities he was hoping for. All three of us...Chloe312, Brandee69 and myself cleared our schedules for a 2 to 3 hr apt. Then this morning he pmd me for the apt. number (Chloe312) . He had the address and the bld number. I didn't think about the apt number and didn't know it. I told him that I didn't know it and also stated to give me a bit of time and I would get him the info. He stated that he had been burned before and wouldn't leave without the apt number. Again I stated to let me get it and I would give it to him. I even explained that I had not been to Chloe's incall before. But I would get him the info. He then said that he might cancel...WTF?

I reminded him that he knows me and assured him that there was nothing to worry about. Within 45 min I had the info and sent him a pm with it. He sent me a pm saying that he had made other arrangements.....are you kidding me? I sent him a pm stating that the three of us had cleared our schedules and turned down other clients for his 2-3 hr apt. This made me think he had already had a plan"A" and that he was using the lack of the apt number as an excuse.

Now this cost three providers time and money today. I have been on here for 3.5 years and have never seen anything like this. I will tell you that as most of you know that Brandee69 and Chloe have great reputations. And I think (hope) I do as well. I can't for the life of me figure out what anyone did wrong. Or why he would do this. This has got to be the lamest actions by a hobist I have ever seen. If a provider did that we would be hung out to dry. So if any of you want to see him....it is at your own risk. I could never do that to anyone. And it hurts more than you know to have this done to yourself.

Thanks for letting me vent.

AngelaS. I am confident your reputation (and the rep of the other providers) will give plenty of weight to your side of the story. I am sorry about everyone's wasted time. Wish I was free or I'd try to swing the three of you!

Yea i was headed out the door headed that way he couldve cancelled way earlier its not like im just sitting around doing nothing all day geez....! Ha

slowmover that is so sweet. Thank you.

Shame on him. Hopefully you ladies will find someone to help fill your time

Wow....not a nice thing to do.

Well we haven't seen his side of the story (if there is one), but certainly based on what you posted he owes all three of you ladies apologies and some or all of the donation.

I do not think you have to worry about this effecting your reputation as it is and will remain solid along with that of Chloe and Brandee. This Hobbyist has no idea of what a great time he missed. His handle would be helpful to others.

His handle is midgetwrestler. Thank you so much for the kind words. It means so much.

Thanks Blaeese and RideFree and Kendall..

ZERO worries about reputation issues except for him. Only lady I know of the 3 is Chloe312 and she is as kind, sweet, and understanding as they come. Everything I've seen about the other two says they're good people too.

He was in the wrong, especially after having an established relationship with one of the ladies already. A foursome is not an easy thing to put together (so I've heard, one day will know) so he should have some understanding and appreciation for you being so flexible to work that out for him. REALLY rude after all you did for him.

I haven't had the pleasure of meeting any of you ladies but now I have every intention of doing so. Douche bag move by this dude.

Thanks for posting it up.

not too sure if this an alert or something you would talk about in a womens problem client area.

Anyways truely sorry it happened, karma will get him

Yup Karma will get him. Life's got a way with doing things to people when they harm others or hurt them in anyway.

I dont know Chloe or Angela..but Brandee is top notch all the way.One of the nicest and most sincere Gals you can meet. THe Guy is an Idiot for messing this up and should pay a cancelation Fee for all the hoops he made thr Gals jump threw...