There is a HUGE "Super" thread about this issue in the National discussion forum and members from all views have talked this to death.
Race super thread:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600
Best to go spend some time reading that Super thread because of the information it provides.
My personal .02.
I have sometimes gone to
www.adultdvdtalk.com checking out various porn stars and this topic of choosing who to fuck is not limited to just the hobby. Porn stars come from all over the country so to label this area as somehow more racist that any other is insulting.
Sadly, from the posting by many AA guys on those porn star forum threads, it appears that way too many AA guys feel that porn stars are
required to fuck black men and take great offense if the porn star does not. There are plenty of porn stars who do great without doing anal, creampies or black porn stars. A couple posts by female porn stars have indicated that a a group, black male porn stars seem to completely ignore any "rules" about behavior on the set and I've read numerous posts by the women stating the black stars were way too rough and abusive and BTW, size of cock has nothing to do with the complaints, it is attitude the female porn stars post about.
It seems the same way here in this thread. I'm not saying you have that exact opinion that any provider is REQUIRED to see you but your post really screams out that you somehow feel that any provider you want to see is required to see you or they must be racist when it is just the opposite based on so many other threads on ECCIE and overall discussions here.
A provider can and must choose to see anyone they want. And if they have chosen to not see black men
for whatever reason, your calling them racist for that choice is not only very racist itself but also ignores the providers ability to see who she wants and that should never be acceptable from any client.
I know many black providers who will not see black clients. Just saw a black body rub girl recently who told me she refuses to see black men and gave her reasons but they are not mine to share.
I know black women who will not date black men because of an "attitude" they get from the black men about how the guys want them to be faithful while the guy is trying to get into every pair of pants he see even if he is with her!
So this cuts across more than just the hobby.
Do you feel that any woman you meet out in the civilian world MUST accept and agree to go on a date with you no matter what color skin she has? If not, why do you feel your demands to see who you want should somehow over ride her choices on who she fucks in this hobby?