Does Real Life Boss = Sissy in Bedroom?

I have to reduce my time on here but thought I'd post something I've observed and see what the members of AR think about this.

It's been my personal observation that my real life role as a Boss...Employer...has honed my desire to sometimes assume a submissive role when it comes to my sexual desires which would include strapon play, having a woman feed me back my cum after she takes it in her mouth, being restrained, unquestioned submission to the appropriate domina, etc....

This observation and requested responses would go both ways b/c I'm also interested in whether women that get off to being "dominated" in the bedroom have a different persona in real life?

Thanks and see you around (perhaps) in the future.

Yep - having the sexy secretary from the front desk bending the office and making her "boss" her "bitch" is one of the many fantasies I have.

Yes people who are always in control or a position of power need to let go and have someone else take control.

The two people I perfrom switch play with are both very powerful people in the job arena. I tend to say yes.

I would have to agree. One of my oldest clients owns an oil and gas biz. Always having to be in charge and tell other what to do... I beat his ass, tell him what to do, and dominate him like no other. All at his request, of course.

I will say, it was pretty hard hitting someone I liked so much! LOL

I know that when I first discovered and became attracted to BDSM it was because I was drawn to the idea of surrendering control to someone else because I had so much control inside of my job.

That's part of it for me, but not all of it. I'm in education now (where I still am in control of alot of stuff, although I'm not the boss), but I did manage and own retail businesses at one time. But, I've fantasized about being a woman's slave since I was a teenager. I don't know why, but for some reason I just love the idea of totally serving a woman and letting her have her way with me. I've been delving into it slowly with one provider, but we're ramping my submission up now and the next session we have planned includes me wearing panties and stockings and garters to the session under my regular clothes, and will probably involved at least some bondage and strap on play too. And quite frankly, I can't wait.

I tend to have quite a few "submissive in another realm" type gents....they are in charge where they work,so they just want to let go and release themselves to another person...........They say that it can be one helluva sexually stimulating act!

I go through phases. There are times I want to be dominated or have the woman take the lead. At other times, I prefer to keep control. It is just my mood. I know that after several recent encounters where I had to initiate everything, I'd welcome the chance for a lady to be in control. I'm not talking whipping or abusive, but being aggressive and domineering.

Most of my subs are someone of authority or superior in their daily positions. I have been told that it good to be told what to do sometimes:-)

I spend my real life in an alpha role and need to be "beta'ed" by women. Love to be toyed with.

Edit: One funny thing I remember from many years ago was a session with Katana, where she was to become more dominant as things went on. She laughed, and told me that just about every kinky guy who wanted woman in charge was a man with a lot of authority in the real world.

Yep - and of course the fantasy of the secretary who bends you over to let you know that in public you might be the boss - but in private you are her bitch!!!

Yep - and of course the fantasy of the secretary who bends you over to let you know that in public you might be the boss - but in private you are her bitch!!! Originally Posted by CajunGent

my kinda play!!

I knew a ProDomme in civilian life as an acquaintance. She charged top dollar for her services in her well equiped dungeon. She told me her clients were all highly placed bureaucrats, business executives, and other people who were in positions of authority. The thought that the boss who was several levels above me on the organization chart might be getting tied to a cross, getting done with a strap-on, getting told what a worthless pervert he was and getting his butt whipped was indecently gratifying. I have heard this more than once from dominatrix.

I've worked for a lot managers who loved the power and control. They would give us goals with a little "stretch", as they called it. I would call quite a few if these bosses "Assholes" to say the least.

So, to Mistresses, Goddesses, Dommes & women acting as the Giver in strap-on play, we ask that You give these a-holes, a slightly bigger dildo just to "stretch" their goal. After all how can he get better, if don't stretch them a little.