Start small and work your way up. Fingers are a great way to start. Working your way up from little finger to thumb is a nice progression. There are butt plugs and vibrators smaller around than your thumb.
Lube is your friend, you can't use too much.
Shopping together for such things can be FUN!
Lots of conversation and laughter as you go is highly recommended. Originally Posted by spice-is-nice
Start small and work your way up. Fingers are a great way to start. Working your way up from little finger to thumb is a nice progression. There are butt plugs and vibrators smaller around than your thumb.
Lube is your friend, you can't use too much.
Shopping together for such things can be FUN!
Lots of conversation and laughter as you go is highly recommended. Originally Posted by spice-is-nice
ditto!!Sounds kinky...I want to join!
I especially love the vibrating butt plugs as a starter toy
have fun! Originally Posted by DallasRain
Start small and work your way up. Fingers are a great way to start. Working your way up from little finger to thumb is a nice progression. There are butt plugs and vibrators smaller around than your thumb.That the way I have always started a newbie.
Lube is your friend, you can't use too much.
Shopping together for such things can be FUN!
Lots of conversation and laughter as you go is highly recommended. Originally Posted by spice-is-nice
That the way I have always started a newbie.
Lots of lube during heavy foreplay or after she has O'ed a few times.
You have to get her heated up!!
When they start asking for more, game on!! Originally Posted by fire engine red
Go to New Fine Arts and get anal ease and go to the Mockingbird location so you can visit the Altrrnatives(in the rear) get the WET URANUS lube... I do greek alot givng and recieving. Its the pre requisite for a GREAT ass time Originally Posted by CsexyCrystalAlthough a lot of people use products like anal eaze (or however it's spelled) and will even use a numbing agent to do deep throating with men, I'm really against using that type of thing.
Side note: Sometimes it takes a long time for a girlfriend, or even a boyfriend, to relax enough to get into the absolute wonderful sensations of anal play. I don't see it as a bad thing ... just something to continually explore and work on!!!I had one lady that is was more then 6 months of working it slow and easy.
Hope my two cents helped!!! Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers