Dose it turn you on or scare you away?

SexyCassandra's Avatar
Okay I have been noticing that some guys love ass play but are to shy about it or could just be uncomfortable with asking for it.

Me personally I like pushing boundaries. It turns me on. I like to be the one who broadens ones way of thinking.
Someone once told me (in my personal life not client) that he dosent like it b/c hes not gay.. I said anything you do with a woman is fine but if you did this shit with a man then you could question yourself. LMAO.

Anyway how many like, love it, want it, expected it.???
If you do want it do you communicate that or do you wait and see if she makes the attempt?

Id love your thoughts and opinions.
I had to put a condom on my fingers and go to town in some ass lol. I say the same, as long as its with a woman then its not gay!

BTW, should I buy you a strap on for your birthday:/ jk
inctown's Avatar
I only expect it if a woman advertises it. never asked for it I figure if a lady likes to do it she would offer. I might try it if I find a lady that would enjoy it and is good at it.
  • RoxyG
  • 02-22-2013, 07:07 PM
Im all for it!! I just started adding to my toy collection and a s/o is next :-)
Ive never advertised for it, but maybe I should
I've done it before , and I have to say I enjoy doing it as long as the guys hygiene is up to par ,..then bottoms up
If it's a small finger or prostate massager I'm game ! How many times can I run through the same list of positions , and sensations , before I get bored ?
jbravo_123's Avatar
Not my cup of tea (having it done on me) but that's just because I don't particularly enjoy the sensation as opposed to believing it somehow makes you a homosexual or anything.
Oralist's Avatar
Squeaky clean is required for Ass Play. There are lots of nerve endings in the taint and ass area. I have found that both sexes enjoy a little rimming and a little fingering. When I was with my first S.O., a little rimming or fingering while dining on her clit was a guaranteed "O" for her. When she was almost there, I would mix in the ass play and she would come like a freight train.
What I find interesting is that I run across women that offer ass play more often in non-pro dating than I do with paid providers. I’m 52 years old and normally date non-pro women in the 40+ age range. Without ever discussing the topic with them, I would say almost half my dates go for the asshole. This could either be in the form of a little ass tickling, rimming or going deep for the prostate. This never happened to me 30 plus years ago. On the other hand, it’s hard to pick up a women’s magazine that doesn’t make reference to the “male g-spot.” Maybe it’s just that women in my age group are a little more receptive to getting their freak on? Fortunately, in most cases, I do enjoy it and feel that it does make for a much more explosive orgasm.
With regard to this activity being gay? How can any activity between two members of the opposite sex be gay?
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  • TheDr
  • 02-23-2013, 11:35 AM
Love kissing, licking, tonguing, whatever you want in the ass area. Just no penetration. Not into it at all...
What I find interesting is that I run across women that offer ass play more often in non-pro dating than I do with paid providers. I’m 52 years old and normally date non-pro women in the 40+ age range. Without ever discussing the topic with them, I would say almost half my dates go for the asshole. This could either be in the form of a little ass tickling, rimming or going deep for the prostate. This never happened to me 30 plus years ago. On the other hand, it’s hard to pick up a women’s magazine that doesn’t make reference to the “male g-spot.” Maybe it’s just that women in my age group are a little more receptive to getting their freak on? Fortunately, in most cases, I do enjoy it and feel that it does make for a much more explosive orgasm.
With regard to this activity being gay? How can any activity between two members of the opposite sex be gay? Originally Posted by GymRat

It isn't!!!!

One exception: What Ms. Athena and Dallas Rain are capable of and will do to you is borderline at best.

True story: My very first FUMA was with a sista. She was a cutie. NEVER knew she was a freak like this. She was BBBJ and I was in heaven UNTIL...she inserted her finger in my ass (never had ass play before, not even sure I was hygienic for this activity at the time, guess I was, 'cause I'm a clean...), my initial reaction was quickly by pure instinct, I balled up a fist and was about to punch her. Thankfully since I've never hit a woman that instinct was shut down quickly, plus I saw a look of pleasure on her face. Then, I was like, damn, this shit feels good. She's a fem, gorgeous, what happens here stays here type of a deal. Needless to say, I became educated, it's called 'Prostrate' massage (didn't know I had one at the time nor that this is a necessity in fully enjoying the full sexperience). Not for all, But I'm Not Ashamed!
My doctor puts his finger in my ass once a year and it is not pleasant. He says my prostate feels normal, which is good. My gastroenterologist has me sedated and puts a 6 foot long endoscope up my ass every three years; so far he has said everthing is OK, which is good. Other than that, my ass is exit only.
DallasRain's Avatar
alot of my guys enjoy anal play....and after all , I do have a magic finger {}

read this:

How to explain an anal orgasm? Hmm.To put it in guy terms, an anal orgasm feels like you are watching your favorite football team win the super bowl on the most state of the art television, eating the most delicious pizza ever created, drinking beer from a magical mug that never goes empty, pressing the button that ignites a few hundred pounds of explosives that levels an abandoned building, holding a winning power ball ticket, having Angelina Jolie and Jessica Beil massaging your feet and shoulders and realizing that the cable company is giving you free porn channels......all at the same time.
Best O I ever had was with a girl who had no finger nails and I was comfortable with. She went down on me while messaging my prostate...all I can say is wow I needed an entire pack of smokes afterwards!
DallasRain's Avatar
that is why I keep my nails trimmed & short!