How to know the difference between…?

So genuine question. On some of the encounters I see URLs from secret benefits. I signed up, but it seems like it’s all Sugar Babies. How can you tell the difference between a provider versus a sugar baby that wants a baby/daddy “relationship”.

Most of the time its the same thing. They just call them self's a SB because they don't like the sound of proustite lol.

I just don’t know how to approach the discussion. Don’t want to be disrespectful but don’t want to end up wandering in inadvertently into a partnership I can’t afford. lol