Having to hobby at all, I would say is my biggest regret
Originally Posted by albundy
This. I regret not having whatever it is that make women want to share intimacy with a man, a deficiency that has me, as Johnny Lee sang, "looking for love in all the wrong places." Sometimes, rarely, I've been able to find it, or as close to it as I'm likely to get at my age. Still, I've never been with a woman I didn't have to pay first or marry, and that's a source of extreme frustration and regret.
I regret not having spent more time enjoying the IOF and IOP that a few special women have provided me. I regret not having enough of whatever it is they are looking for for them to want to continue the relationships. And I regret not being good enough for those women who say "no."
And, to some extent, I regret falling into that IOP/IOF trap, as, once there, it's hard to go back to simple this-is-just-about-sex mode.