Paying for time

So as I search for a new regular here in Buffalo, I always get the same question, how much time would you like ?

I understand the loop hole that escorts use to be some what legal in what they are doing, but when you think about it, what a scam they run

Thinking back to all my encounters over the last three years, I can’t think of any girls ever going the distance for their PAID TIME.

I honestly think the longest I ever seen a girl do actual work is 20 minutes or a little longer for an hour of time

I doubt I’m the only one to feel this way, was just curious how the community feels and if anyone ever works for their whole time paid.

Monger on

Ive pushed my time at times and the girls were very good about it.
Some are the opposite.
Its not that big a thing to me as long as I know whats what.
When they cut me short and rush, chances are I wont be back.
My regulars take care of me and Im happy.

Agreed on time wise, never have problems with regulars.

If you're doing big favors then time is never even discussed.

In regards to girls asking for deposits because their appointments don’t show up.

It’s like they really believe their time has value, are they really that clueless.

It’s not your time guys are paying for it’s what you do when you meet.

The other thing that really annoys me, is an extra added on for outcalls and the majority of these girls need you to pick them up and drop them off.

They have no clue why they ask for more, outcall, they just copy what the other girls do.

If I’m picking you up and dropping you off, you ain’t getting travel expense, lol

Have had many girls a few streets over who wanted to come right over ask for deposits.

Just spend the 5 minutes to get here and collect your cash, this isn’t rocket surgery

I know whores are not people and dont have bills to pay so their time has no value.

Only your time is valuable, eh?

If you have such problems stop seeing escorts.

I dont expect my dick to be in a whore for an hour straight when I book the hour.

If I pay for an hour of companionship I expect an hour. MSOG in that time. If the girl is less than desirable I'll cut out early after a pop or 2. Sometimes I go over if she is cool with that I'll see her again

I doubt I’m the only one to feel this way, was just curious how the community feels and if anyone ever works for their whole time paid. Originally Posted by bf0082

you should only pay a taxi for the miles travelled
If you're a stingy consumer, this hobby isn't for you.

I do probably 2 hours of legitimate 'work' in a work day. The rest of the time its babysitting executives, handholding project managers, attending endless meetings of scope change and discovery....

Pay me what I'm worth? heavens no, i need something to live on

Just my 2 cents here.

Escorts understand the meaning of time. When they ask me how long I like they know they will be there that long.

Prostitutes/hookers do not understand the meaning of time. All they understand is how to get you off as quick as possible and move on to the next.

Unfortunately around here we have about 90% prostitutes/hookers and 10% escorts.

you should only pay a taxi for the miles travelled
If you're a stingy consumer, this hobby isn't for you.

I do probably 2 hours of legitimate 'work' in a work day. The rest of the time its babysitting executives, handholding project managers, attending endless meetings of scope change and discovery....

Pay me what I'm worth? heavens no, i need something to live on Originally Posted by BigShit

Let’s be real, these girls are paid for their actions, not their time. Some lawyer somewhere created this whole paid for time concept to legitimize prostitution, and these girls buy into hook line and sinker with no understanding of what it really is, and that’s frustrating to me, and I’m curious of hearing others points of view.

The majority of these women couldn’t hold down a part time job at McDonald’s, let alone command an hourly rate in line with being a lawyer, because their time is so valuable, I’d like some justification of why they believe they are worth 300$ an hour, or $500 an hour when they aren’t bent over taking it

The majority of these women couldn’t hold down a part time job at McDonald’s, let alone command an hourly rate in line with being a lawyer, because their time is so valuable, I’d like some justification of why they believe they are worth 300$ an hour, or $500 an hour when they aren’t bent over taking it Originally Posted by bf0082

I can't say you're wrong here.
I think it comes with the territory and how they present their business.
If they are advertising on Crawler, StG, etc...anything that doesn't have a legitimate vetting process or their own hosted website with content, chances are you're gonna get shit service from a person that doesn't know business and thinks just showing up gets it done. The only thing she can do is be a receptcle to pop on.

Are we talking about "pay to pop"?
What if the experience is more than that? Then you'd be seeking an actual courtesean, an actual escort. Those kind of women can command high $$$ because its the service and EXPERIENCE they provide.

If you're frequenting HOOKERS, then you'd have to ask yourself why you're paying more than $ since you only need a few minutes with her

I’d like some justification of why they believe they are worth 300$ an hour, or $500 an hour when they aren’t bent over taking it Originally Posted by bf0082

Sorry i failed to respond to this...
there is a difference between COST and VALUE.
When talking about an EXPERIENCE, value/worth is how you define the compensation.
Is DisneyLand worth $7,000 for a weekend of crappy pancakes, long lines, mediocre rides, etc?
Would you tell your family to just push each other around in shopping carts at the K-Mart parking lot to get a comprarable thrill for significantly less money?

I've paid >$700/hr for multiple hours with some high quality escorts and it was worth every penny**. For the experience, for the visceral imprint on my psyche it made, for the massive ego stroking the woman provides (to be served and worship like a god by a woman looking like a supermodel will blow your mind).
I'm not an emotional person, but that kind of experience just can't be substituted. These girls will make you forget about the reality. They will never even approach "time" (clock watch). I often "pay" for 2 hrs, but receive 4 hrs of service

Think of a "Westworld"/Fantasy Island scenario here. How much would feeling IN LOVE like you did when you were 14 be worth to you?
Get a smokeshow escort, not one of these tatted up runaway junkies, couple that with her being excited to see you and being ALL OVER YOU, then trying to please you for hours in a night. What would that be worth?
And I know full and well how simple this shit is. Its ZigZiglar101....but SOOO MANY girls fail miserably at it.
Here's an example:
https://tryst.link/escort/devyn#photos
or
https://tryst.link/escort/stellasteinbeck#photos
or
https://tryst.link/escort/charlotte-desir
imagine this gorgeous woman greeting you in public, dressed to the nines and be all over you, seducing you all night. Just imagine what that would feel like. Is that signficantly different than the experiences you're having now?


You pay for an EXPERIENCE.
If a woman understands this and delivers...she's worth the $ she commands

**could i get this same experience for 1/4 price outside the US? absolutely, but.....

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THIS IS WHEN IT "WORKS"

However, I know many a working girl that simply raises her rates just to weed out a certain demographic of clientele. Did she do something different and offer better services? no....she just is trying to make her product seem more valuable than the regular fare

But a lot of these street whores want big money with deposits and thats what sucks.
I dont have a never ending supply of money.
Had to cut way down this year
Might even cut it down to 3-4 girls
and rest can go to hell

There are alot of hooker/escorts but an actual escort is someone who doesn't have $ex for money, they're someone to be your date for prom or wedding etc..but in my experience if your "vibing real well" they'll let you go over time without too much fuss depends on the girl but I am a patient Man but kick out/cut time short bad review coming for sure

My atf who doesnt do it anymore never cared . From the day I met her we always bung out vibed and sex was amazing. The most eautiful little spinner. Shed send me naughty pics all the time when she got ew lingere and such. Money wasnt an issue , she barely ever asked for it. Was almost like a seudo g.f. without having to live together and drama. She is 20 hrs my jr. And think she had a daddy fetish honeslty but who cares. She was one of the best times I ever had for a year. I communicate with ber still 1-2 times a hr. But she had a kid and got serious with her life once she hit 30. Would have given her the stars and moon to be her man .but jjst thankful she allowed me to be her friend for that short time.