Requests & ISO

I totally get that this isn't Dallas or Houston and we have very few ladies who actively participate and interact with our little group (jeez, can't imagine why), but it's really discouraging how little the Request and ISO forum can be and is used. However with the sophomoric responses that many requests receive and the lack of ladies who are engaged here, I can tell you I wouldn't utilize it for the purpose that's stated by the owners, which is:


This forum is the place to ask for hobbying inquiries. You may ask about where to find certain girls, particular activites, or for information on certain types of ladies. General inquiries and the like. Consider this a specialized forum for feedback and suggestions. Other general discussions belong in the Coed Discussion areas or Men's Lounge. These are not hard and fast rules - just general guidelines.


Check out the Dallas ISO forum. It's actually used for the above purpose. Wouldn't it be nice if you had spare time and money to spend on Wednesday night and you could post here and actually have ladies publically and privately let you know if they're available? Or if you wanted BBBJCIM or greek and you posted and got serious responses from ladies who offer it or from guys who can refer providers they have had experience with.

I've mentioned this before and have pretty much given up hope that it will ever reach its potential, but it doesn't appear that the ISO forum will be of any particular value in KC/Wichita. Do you agree, are you disappointed it's not that helpful for many requests and why do you think it doesn't work here?

I use it like that but I am very rarely the target provider for that stuff.

well said i totally agree lakecat

Any chance you are looking for a companion tonight Angel?

I made this exact post months ago, and for a short time there were people tossing around the idea of a place where guys could post their requests or desires and ladies could respond with their interest. It never happened.

It does, the problem is that a great many of the specific requests just aren't appealling. Women aren't answering because we aren't interested. $100 outcall anyone?

I've mentioned this before and have pretty much given up hope that it will ever reach its potential, but it doesn't appear that the ISO forum will be of any particular value in KC/Wichita. Do you agree, are you disappointed it's not that helpful for many requests and why do you think it doesn't work here? Originally Posted by lakecat

SG hit the nail on the head, in my opinion.

The forum you speak of seems to have as it's primary function being the central "clearinghouse" for backpage trolls to make their inquiries regarding legitimacy in their endless search for "discount pussy" (a term coined by SG....accurately, I might add), even if the girl in question provides significantly limited services, versus the more refined, some would say, inquires for specific services and availability of quality, legitimate ladies as in Dallas, where a back-and-forth exchange of notices and explanations, etc., takes place.

So, lakecat, my question back to you is, how does this community change that philosophy or does it want to make that change might be a better question?

Just my two cents....

I’m glad to see that a reasonably civil discussion is taking place, hopefully it will continue.


No doubt too many ask relatively stupid questions that could be answered with the search button. And yes there are a lot of guys asking about discount pussy. But I don’t think those requests should be condemned. That’s one of my points. We all have different situations, we all have different fantasies, we all have different budgets. The guy that comes on and asks about $100 pussy, isn’t asking about SG or some of the other great ladies we have on here that charge more than that. He may be a great guy who’s between jobs and that’s all he can come up with, doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a troll. Understand, where one guy or gal thinks a dude is crazy for spending $100 for pussy, just as many think you’re crazier paying $400. So who’s the crazy one? Neither, as Elena says, there’s a Jack for every Jill and part of the reason for Eccie is to help find that match. Just because you think a request is stupid doesn’t mean it's not legitimate.


I personally don’t like the judgments that people make here so often. Another complaint I have, and IMHO a big reason the ISO isn’t used that much, is if you do make a request for something that is deemed unusual or unacceptable by some, it’s demeaned and made fun of. You may not be looking for two transvestites for a threesome, but you don’t have to make snarky comments or make fun of the request. WTF, it’s a freaking hooker board, I don’t think any of us are in a position to be judging people’s fantasies and fetishes; a little tolerance goes a long ways for making this a more open forum. If someone requests bondage info and you’re turned off by that, don’t open the thread. I’m sure the responses some folks have received has discouraged other people from asking if someone is willing to do a fantasy for them.


Yes KCQ, I remember that discussion. I think a big part of the problem is we’re just not as big as the Texas boards. It only works if there are enough people participating that the guys and girls that post requests can actually get responses. One of my other points was it can be done with PM’s , ladies don’t have to put it out there they do something YMMV. But if they do, it’s free advertising. And dudes can relate their experiences with ladies that might help someone. Great concept, difficult to execute apparently.


To try to answer your question Scorpio, a way to START changing that philosophy is not tolerating the “attacks” on the requestor. If someone makes a request and some smart asses start making fun of it, it’s up to the adults to spank the snarks and tell them to take it someplace else. As long as they’re tolerated, they’ll keep on with their cyber bullying. Does the community WANT to change? My suspicion is no, too many people get their jollies sitting at a keyboard behind their handles making fun of others while too many let it happen.

To wrap it up, I understand this is too utopian and has way too much “why can’t we all just get along” in it. But it seems to me to make business sense to be able to use the ISO as a clearing house for the guys and girls to get together and play. Which is why most of us are here in the first place. So, group hug and everybody have a great day!

Damn Like button will only let my hit it once.

I do believe that a few with their what seems to be always negative posts, have kept a great deal of lurkers from ever posting.

I lurked around this board for over a year before posting anything, and my first post was a review,
I guess because I did lurk so much I got lucky with nothing but nice things said about that review.
but I also remember the straight out fear of being made fun of or quacked at on the first review.

I often wonder what would have happened if some of the negative things I have been seeing lately,
posted on other newbies reviews was posted on mine.
I really don't think I would still be on this site if that had happened.
(sorry you already had that chance - so now your stuck with me)


About the $100 outcall...

Lets just say for the sake of this argument that is was scorpio31 that posted that ISO.
We will also say for the sake of this argument that both scorpio31 and SillyGirl
have met each other in the past and enjoyed each others company greatly.
And lets say that SillyGirl is sitting at home bored out of her mind.
(I know I am really stretching the for sake of this argument thing)
The whole $100 outcall has a different meaning now.

what are moderators for then?

and what exactly is a lurker? i'm guess'n that's a bad thing.

A lurker is someone that follows the forum but doesn't post or otherwise contribute.

About the $100 outcall...

Lets just say for the sake of this argument that is was scorpio31 that posted that ISO.
We will also say for the sake of this argument that both scorpio31 and SillyGirl
have met each other in the past and enjoyed each others company greatly.
And lets say that SillyGirl is sitting at home bored out of her mind.
(I know I am really stretching the for sake of this argument thing)
The whole $100 outcall has a different meaning now. Originally Posted by ElumEno

I agree... you stretched that one pretty thinly... but I see your point. And, contrary to popular belief, there are $100 outcalls available from high quality providers at a YMMV stand-point. I know two girls who have done them in the past. One has a very expansive menu and we had so much fun we ended up pressing long past the time she was supposed to be there for. The other, a more limited menu but she's my type so I call her quite often and recent correspondence has lead to her agreeing to open her menu up.

Membership has its privileges... and so does being a regular.

Well if it is sooooo reasonable why no replies?

I lurked for about 2 hrs and I jumped right in. I was attacked by a few folks on the national forum and I was even pointed for it when I stood up for myself. I don't care what other people think so it didn't hurt me in my quest here.

The main issue here I think is the attacks folks make on each other newbie or not. While I agree some things I see in the other realm or in ISO's in other areas freak me out, but I don't comment on them. I take a look, say damn... and move on.

Oh and who wouldn't want 100 dollar pussy, lol? If I could get some of my favs even for one nut on 100 bucks I would be there but that isn't the case. It may sound cheap, but I wouldn't just completely dismiss 100 pussy as being horrible, taboo, or outright nasty. The same could be said for the ladies that want 400 to 500 bucks for an hour, every lady wants to get that but you aren't going to always find it.