For the ladies..How do you decide who to see?

With all the threads going on about how the guys decide who they see I figured I would put it out there how do you decide? I don't go just by references if it is someone here and someone who posts alot I go by that and how we click via PM or email...For example I had a request by someone I think very highly of but based on his posts I knew I wasn't the right one for him and very nicely told him that and we are still friends and email. My thoughts are if I don't think I can give him what he really wants and deserves than I am not going just to see him to see him..There has to be a connection of some sorts...I still hold him in high regard but I know I am not want he is looking for...so ladies how do you decide who you are going to see?

I should be a lady's first choice.

I am polite.

I am punctual.

I am clean, or I quickly shower.

I am small.

I finish within nanoseconds.

An hour appointment over in less than five minutes . . .

I should be a lady's first choice.

I am polite.

I am punctual.

I am clean, or I quickly shower.

I am small.

I finish within nanoseconds.

An hour appointment over in less than five minutes . . . Originally Posted by pyramider

Get over here to my incall right now.

Good solid references and safety are priority # 1!

If I feel a guy who wants to see me is not going to enjoy what I offer,then I just go with the flow and do what i can to ensure he DOES!.

Guys have read my reviews and know what I offer.........so evidently he knows what he is in for!
{if he doesn't,then he has been hiding under a rock....lol}

well first of all his initial pm
..also how he responds in threads..
if he is a reviewer just to brag--can go either way really..they do deserve @ least a look at the full provider ..
i am aware that with any "Forum" there are those that lead /// follow //those that can x one out???
it is a business .... ok i didnt say that shit to piss anyone off and not directed towards anyone..
i just try to stay aware ..cause i am my own business...

so then i look at the other ladies he has seen..has he been respectful..shit im a slut im a dirty little hooktard shove that down my thr...spank me ..im a freak.but bcd unleast until u know me better (numbers, therapy, nrg, axiom, emos, rehab, ..then austin music scene, california..believe me i am no prude and love to play...but when i walk out a door im the female raised in private schools for the gifted (iq test to enter).too much ramble
recently found a new love for tfor boys
JUST OUTSIDE IM A LADY ...when i can make myself be

oh u ask me anything about rates ,bye? i dont want a picture of ur cok thanks
and newbies i have special requirements but i will cu
if a guy is texting forever i say drop it==full of getting off on ur pics and texts --cheapos

mostly be careful follow ur first mind

gawd

Interesting topic. I know ladies decline to see guys (or at least say they do). I have been NCNSd before, but I don't know if that is a "refusal" specifically since she set up the appointment in the first place.

Now, I did have an experience this last year where the lady seemed never to refuse to meet me, but at the same time never agreed to see me.

I would much prefer a lady say bluntly, "I don't think we'll click," than to NCNS, put me off, or agree to see me knowing we'll both have terrible sessions.

What a big fat wallet and a big fat dick that takes 5 minutes to get in, isn't the first priority?

Contacting me with a brief intro of yourself along with already having the required screening info already in hand- get triple points for me.

I decided who I would like to see through my screening and correspondence with the person I like a respectful ad light hearted lad who can see the humor in life. I love to flirt while corresponding prior to our meeting so if they guy can flirt back and titillate me as well, I know that we will get on splendidly.

If I get contacted from someone who seems abrasive or may be more demanding I gently tell them we probably won't work together well because we are clearly interested in a different scenarios.

I should be a lady's first choice.

I am polite.

I am punctual.

I am clean, or I quickly shower.

I am small.

I finish within nanoseconds.

An hour appointment over in less than five minutes . . . Originally Posted by pyramider

Are you bragging or complaining?

Good solid references and safety are priority # 1!

If I feel a guy who wants to see me is not going to enjoy what I offer,then I just go with the flow and do what i can to ensure he DOES!.

Guys have read my reviews and know what I offer.........so evidently he knows what he is in for!
{if he doesn't,then he has been hiding under a rock....lol} Originally Posted by DallasRain

+1

Are you bragging or complaining? Originally Posted by Still Looking

Just stating the facts! I thought I better jump on it and get my resume out there.

Most important to me is safety so your references must be in order. Second is your limits and correspondence with me. As long as you are a gentleman who can respect a woman. I don't see no problem in finding out more about you.

Are you bragging or complaining? Originally Posted by Still Looking

You would thinck with my impressive resume may pm box would be overflowing.

The only time I say no is when they're trying to haggle or they're acting like a douche bag.
Otherwise I'll give everyone a chance.

Some of us are lucky you can't see us till we arrive.